Huh!
The question of whether to use spanking or some other punishment is individual to each family.  I think it is also individual whether or not to use any punishment; I know of, but do not employ, child discipline methods which reject punishment entirel...  moreHuh!
The question of whether to use spanking or some other punishment is individual to each family.  I think it is also individual whether or not to use any punishment; I know of, but do not employ, child discipline methods which reject punishment entirely.
Respect and fear are not synonymous.  Respect is earned.  Fear is imposed.  A child may fear a consequence for misbehavior but accepts the consequence out of respect for the parent.
I have written elsewhere in the context of my own childhood memories about knowing that I could have resisted punishment but never did.  I have certainly given the topic much thought and finally concluded that the reason were trust, respect and love.  less

The rights of a step-parent are limited merely by the wishes of the biological parent.  If the bio-parent wishes to address discipline himself or herself, that is the bio-parent's prerogative.  However, as a newly formed family develops, it is natural for...  moreThe rights of a step-parent are limited merely by the wishes of the biological parent.  If the bio-parent wishes to address discipline himself or herself, that is the bio-parent's prerogative.  However, as a newly formed family develops, it is natural for the step-parent to love their step-children and to think of them as their own.  The step-children ideally learn to love the step-parent.  When the bond of mutual love is present, it is then natural for the step-parent to take a part in the child's discipline.  There is no divine right but there is love and respect.
I love my step-daughter.  It is my duty and honor to raise her well.  less