How helpful to others are you? Do you look for ways to extend a helping hand or do you keep both hands tightly closed in clenched fists lest anyone think you are interested i... moreHow helpful to others are you? Do you look for ways to extend a helping hand or do you keep both hands tightly closed in clenched fists lest anyone think you are interested in being of help to them? Why are some folks giving/helpful and some folks the opposite of that?