That had complimented you, waved, chatted with you, etc, and you returned a kindness/affinity for them with a nice gesture, to find out, they are married? :/
Well... there was this girl. She kept showing up unexpectedly on purpose. I asked her out but she said no, she already had a boyfriend. Too late, I'd already fallen for her and the trouble was I already had someone else too. I moved to another town 150 miles away. There she was! Now I had to tell her that I was engaged. What a mess. This went on for nearly two years. I finally married the girl I had in the first place. We've been married 41 years now.
I think we've all been there.
That is not my 'thing'. "Hey honey, you look very beddable, lets go to bed."
She was in the same town that you moved to as well??? Wow. I'm sorry it didn't work out between you.. I am glad you have loved and been with your wife .... such a nice story.. the guy I began to like had shown me lots of kindness, concern etc... and it was just a bummer to realize after he was married:/ I said to someone here, I almost with he had not shown me that kindness b/c it's fine for him, to show affection or borderline flirtation but not for me ... and he became "kind of" wary when I did for a moment.. :/ Then he was fine and chatted, but overall I cannot really have the same feeling I did before, now knowing he has a ring.. oh well.. life does go on.. ty so much Call