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  • Baybreeze
    Baybreeze replied to Have you ever slowly faded from, or stopped replying to someone who.. ?:
    Well they didn't ask why I wasn't contacting them, they asked, 'haven't heard from you in bit, are you okay?' So I just went on from there to chat, and they again didn't seem interested in 'me' as I am in them. :( I still like them it's strange, but it hu...  moreWell they didn't ask why I wasn't contacting them, they asked, 'haven't heard from you in bit, are you okay?' So I just went on from there to chat, and they again didn't seem interested in 'me' as I am in them. :( I still like them it's strange, but it hurt, so I slowly faded... I feel badly, but I don't also want to ask someone, 'Do u want to know about 'me' too .... ?' I'd feel way too weird asking it you know? So now that  I have faded, they have not contacted me with a 'why'... which also hurts. Oh well, guess that's just how it is ...  less
    • December 13, 2017
  • Baybreeze
    Baybreeze replied to Have you ever slowly faded from, or stopped replying to someone who.. ?:
    No I mean, I faded a bit, to not really chatting now, b/c it was too direct to say' You don't seem interested in me/my likes etc.' :(  They has asked why they hadn't heard from me the first time , and I didn't really say, just chatted more..but the s...  moreNo I mean, I faded a bit, to not really chatting now, b/c it was too direct to say' You don't seem interested in me/my likes etc.' :(  They has asked why they hadn't heard from me the first time , and I didn't really say, just chatted more..but the second time, have they have not inquired why I have not replied in a while (which also makes me sad) ...but it's ok. It might have just been an end of the road. It pangs me though b/c I did enjoy them ... thx S  
    • December 12, 2017
  • Baybreeze
    Baybreeze started a discussion:
    Have you ever slowly faded from, or stopped replying to someone who.. ?
    Does not ask you about 'you' and your life too? I feel so badly b/c the person I was getting to know/chat with was kind and warm, and seemed to really want to help people. After a few initial interactions about our overall life, and tribulations (which we...  moreDoes not ask you about 'you' and your life too? I feel so badly b/c the person I was getting to know/chat with was kind and warm, and seemed to really want to help people. After a few initial interactions about our overall life, and tribulations (which we connected on), I would ask them questions of their likes /passions /daily day, but they did not of me. I began to feel sullen over a bit of time, and sad. I just cared I guess, more ? I'm not sure, it felt that way a bit. It panged me that I was the only one asking so began to stop chatting.. I feel so badly , but I don't know how to just say, 'you don't seem to be curious of 'me' ?  I just find it too open/direct. It's been a bit since talking now .. the person had inquired about it (me stopping) initially, but the second time I stopped they have not inquired in quite a bit. That makes me sad too :(  What can u do?  Have u ever encountered/or faded from someone feeling badly about it?  less
    • December 12, 2017
  • Baybreeze
    Baybreeze replied to Is it ok to not know what you want when you set out dating, and just try it for Fun??:
    Ugh sorry the question marks were a happy face lol
    • October 28, 2017
  • Baybreeze
    Baybreeze replied to Is it ok to not know what you want when you set out dating, and just try it for Fun??:
    Ty so much ! ????
    • October 28, 2017
  • Baybreeze
    Baybreeze replied to Is it ok to not know what you want when you set out dating, and just try it for Fun??:
    Thx Baba... I loved that, with the clear reflection on a lake, but then once my mind is stirred up( thoughts, ideas, labels etc. or in my case abusive, awful criticisms) then I 'can't ' see my self. I guess most of my life has been that stirred up muddy p...  moreThx Baba... I loved that, with the clear reflection on a lake, but then once my mind is stirred up( thoughts, ideas, labels etc. or in my case abusive, awful criticisms) then I 'can't ' see my self. I guess most of my life has been that stirred up muddy part :( Thinking that is who I am, and once you have been in abuse for a LONG time, who do I think I AM to think a guy would really like me? :(  But I will ponder your ideas again, for they are very deep ... ty :)  
    • October 28, 2017
  • Baybreeze
    Baybreeze replied to Is it ok to not know what you want when you set out dating, and just try it for Fun??:
    Thanks friend. I always think, will I be leading a guy on if I am not sure if I even want to go into a relationship mode? My mind first thinks you don't deserve love, but then thinks, even if you get calm and just have fun, am I a dating fraud for not kno...  moreThanks friend. I always think, will I be leading a guy on if I am not sure if I even want to go into a relationship mode? My mind first thinks you don't deserve love, but then thinks, even if you get calm and just have fun, am I a dating fraud for not knowing what I truly want? Most guys DO know what they want when they go out to date, and it seems anyway , it is to get into a relationship... (sometimes as soon as possible) .. NOt 'all' guys but a lot. And I FEAR that :( So I guess it IS ok like u said, maybe I'll learn as I go.. (if I do want to see the person again) Ty  :)  *huggg  less
    • October 28, 2017
  • Baybreeze
    Baybreeze replied to Is it ok to not know what you want when you set out dating, and just try it for Fun??:
    Thanks friend. I guess I get stuck ( a lot ) in the notion that if I am not a well rounded, 'whole' person right off the bat, then my subconscious likes to say, 'Well who do u think u are to even really begin dating?' and makes me so sad. I really like th...  moreThanks friend. I guess I get stuck ( a lot ) in the notion that if I am not a well rounded, 'whole' person right off the bat, then my subconscious likes to say, 'Well who do u think u are to even really begin dating?' and makes me so sad. I really like though how you said perhaps I will just 'remain ppl who talk to each other once in a while'.. I like that, b/c it is not PRESSURE to be more, when I feel anxiety about 'me' sometimes. Thank u Sunshine :)  
    • October 28, 2017
  • Baybreeze
    Baybreeze replied to Is it ok to not know what you want when you set out dating, and just try it for Fun??:
    I thank you for all your descriptive and wonderful replies and advice, T :)  Yes the negative self image is there, as not my choosing- and it wants me to not date, it wants me to fail, it wants me to say 'you are not confident, so HOW could you date?...  moreI thank you for all your descriptive and wonderful replies and advice, T :)  Yes the negative self image is there, as not my choosing- and it wants me to not date, it wants me to fail, it wants me to say 'you are not confident, so HOW could you date?'  That is the bully voice that abused me for many years. But now 'I'm ' forming a me finally, yet I'm still not the "Know -exactly- what- I -want- from- a -guy" woman yet. I did join therapy, and so far it is nice! I have brought up dating here or there, but I think this month I'm going (Nov.) to get into it more- to learn how I don't have to wonder if I'm 'letting someone down' if I don't go further with them. Ty so much !  less
    • October 28, 2017
  • Baybreeze
    Baybreeze started a discussion:
    Is it ok to not know what you want when you set out dating, and just try it for Fun??
    I may have asked this in past, but it is on my mind today. I have never dated due to severe childhood abuse that led to adulthood. The abuse continued into my teen/adult years, and the effects as well. I have PTSD symptoms and anxiety and while a LOT of t...  moreI may have asked this in past, but it is on my mind today. I have never dated due to severe childhood abuse that led to adulthood. The abuse continued into my teen/adult years, and the effects as well. I have PTSD symptoms and anxiety and while a LOT of the time I identify with that, (being less, or weak b/c of the anxiety, or just those messages for YEARS as a kid) I am also kind, humorous, patient and caring. I think those things is what a guy may enjoy about me, but my subconscious goes to, 'who do u think u are to date? You never have, and you are not like other, confident women'... :(  So could one date not really knowing the 'end' of that they want (relationship, marriage etc) ? Could u go out just for that night, just for some fun ....? I fear other guys might want more and might be dating for a serious thing, but I guess if one is upfront with not being 'serious' right away, is it ok and have you ever experienced it/tried it ?  less
    • October 28, 2017
  • Baybreeze
    Baybreeze replied to Ladies, would you chat with a guy who had a girlfriend?:
    I agree. Even having a gf, was a red flag b/c I feel kind of wary about being another who is taking time away or becoming closer.... he said she was distant though, and then the next day now she is going to see other people.. but it did seem so fast withi...  moreI agree. Even having a gf, was a red flag b/c I feel kind of wary about being another who is taking time away or becoming closer.... he said she was distant though, and then the next day now she is going to see other people.. but it did seem so fast within one day him telling me that.... I guess I'm always skeptical since it is online, but I want to take his word for it...  :/ Ty for your reply Righty  
    • September 22, 2017
  • Baybreeze
    Baybreeze replied to Ladies, would you chat with a guy who had a girlfriend?:
    I agree, ppl seem to want 'quick' fixes to feeling lonely, and the internet is full of that for sure. But I also think real love or friendship CAN be had or made. yes, I do feel like a creep if I talk to another's bf... you nailed it. Tonight he said that...  moreI agree, ppl seem to want 'quick' fixes to feeling lonely, and the internet is full of that for sure. But I also think real love or friendship CAN be had or made. yes, I do feel like a creep if I talk to another's bf... you nailed it. Tonight he said that his gf wants to see other people. I'm uncertain: I want to feel that is true, I hope it is.... he seems kind and funny and we kind of clicked. I guess I will ask again to make sure, b/c I have always felt wary of chatting with a guy with a wife, or gf. Thank you for all your ideas and thoughts T!!! *huggs. Have a nice eve too  less
    • September 21, 2017
  • Baybreeze
    Baybreeze replied to Ladies, would you chat with a guy who had a girlfriend?:
    It was a private message yes b/c I thought he was single, b/c he was flirting on a question I posted. So then I messaged him thanks , and he messaged back and then said he had a gf when I asked. He asked me today why I was single or didn't have kids, and ...  moreIt was a private message yes b/c I thought he was single, b/c he was flirting on a question I posted. So then I messaged him thanks , and he messaged back and then said he had a gf when I asked. He asked me today why I was single or didn't have kids, and said he found dating sites to be a waste. So I said, 'didn't you say you had a gf? or are you dating now?' (b/c he said he was on/used dating sites.) He said today now that his gf wants to see other people. I'm not sure .... it very well could be, but I wish I 'knew'. I guess I will continue but just be kind of friendly mainly. Ty Lyrical  again :)  less
    • September 21, 2017
  • Baybreeze
    Baybreeze replied to Ladies, would you chat with a guy who had a girlfriend?:
    I agree, I have developed feelings once for a married person online, we got quite close and then he'd kind of flirt, and I just had to stop... I couldn't even continue b/c I felt so low, knowing it could go nowhere and that also he had a wife in the next ...  moreI agree, I have developed feelings once for a married person online, we got quite close and then he'd kind of flirt, and I just had to stop... I couldn't even continue b/c I felt so low, knowing it could go nowhere and that also he had a wife in the next room and I'd never feel good having a hub talking to a woman online :(  So I never will chat again with a married person. But this is kind of different, he is not married but still has a commitment to a gf. I have already had that experience of really liking someone online and I jsut feel it will be not good for me overall, but fine for him....   I'm still torn but I ty for those boundaries you wrote!  less
    • September 21, 2017
  • Baybreeze
    Baybreeze replied to Ladies, would you chat with a guy who had a girlfriend?:
    That's why I have not replied in couple days, but he messaged again. I felt like if I continue it 'could' lead to more if we chat more- we initially were flirting a bit, and I assumed he was single. Then I asked if he had a gf  a day later and he sai...  moreThat's why I have not replied in couple days, but he messaged again. I felt like if I continue it 'could' lead to more if we chat more- we initially were flirting a bit, and I assumed he was single. Then I asked if he had a gf  a day later and he said yes. So I kind of stopped replying b/c we had flirted :/  So I'm unsure to continue when I now have to be just cut and dry , how's the weather or things like that. I know what u mean it could be just banter , but I feel that even  'friends' online can affect a bf/gf, and I do NOT want to be that other woman that is chatting with someone's bf.... but on the other hand it CAN be just friendly if I do it maybe once a week.  Ty Lyrical  :)  less
    • September 21, 2017
  • Baybreeze
    Baybreeze started a discussion:
    Ladies, would you chat with a guy who had a girlfriend?
    More specifically online? I realize they are not married, and I vowed I would not continue a chat even if it were friendly, with a married person, but would you if the person had a gf? I feel badly just halting /cutting off any continued chat, but I also ...  moreMore specifically online? I realize they are not married, and I vowed I would not continue a chat even if it were friendly, with a married person, but would you if the person had a gf? I feel badly just halting /cutting off any continued chat, but I also feel weird to continue.... If I had a bf and saw him chatting with a girl I'd feel low... what are your thoughts ? I once did chat w/ a guy IRL who had a girlfriend, but it was just at a concert and he was my seatmate... he was great and even complimented me, but I d idn't even say thanks ....lol. I felt like if I did I'd be almost flirting or something, and just kind of looked away. We did laugh but then of course, the concert was over. What do you think of  it online ? (in a friendly way... I'm still feeling wary about it)  less
    • September 21, 2017
  • Baybreeze
    Baybreeze replied to Would you reply again to someone's attacking email?:
    Yes,thank you. I so agree with saying what really happened to someone who is belittling you. I told her after she sent me an aggressive email.. told her the Truth of what went on, that the child was calm, and very sick and needed immediate attnetion. His ...  moreYes,thank you. I so agree with saying what really happened to someone who is belittling you. I told her after she sent me an aggressive email.. told her the Truth of what went on, that the child was calm, and very sick and needed immediate attnetion. His safety was NEVER in jeopardy. And she watited weeks to email me back after explaining, and says another aggressive one: saying AGAIN it is 'excuses' and he was with strangers with EMTs. They are not strangers aiding your son's LIFE. It would be like me saying, I don't want my child going into surgery  , they are strangers. o.O So I don't know whether to say anything 'else' back, a second time. She belittled me also yest. for a second time and wondered what 'children I' might be with in future.' acting like I'm some awful  child care giver; that made me so Sad and angry frankly. I have been kind, patient and loving to her and her son eVERY single time with them, so it was shocking to me to see another email like that. I guess I can let it go as she is n...    less
    • September 5, 2017
  • Baybreeze
    Baybreeze replied to Would you reply again to someone's attacking email?:
    I did call and contact her before any call to 911. She did not answer.... and he was getting worse. I never ever questioned calling assistance b/c his fever was feeling HOT to the touch.. that can be dangerous in  smaller kids. Even the EMT said wow ...  moreI did call and contact her before any call to 911. She did not answer.... and he was getting worse. I never ever questioned calling assistance b/c his fever was feeling HOT to the touch.. that can be dangerous in  smaller kids. Even the EMT said wow he is toasty..... Yes I did all I could and he got the help he NEEDED. Do i feel bad I didn't go/couldn't? YES. Do I regret helping him as His HEALTH came before anything else? No, do not regret. Ty so much for your kind words. And actually yes, I finally got hold and she said ok  will meet him at hospital. then messaged me an attack email :/  I wish them the best but, it was very sad to me to say such  words like 'excuses' to me  when I had his well being in mind Only. Ty AGain TRuth  less
    • September 5, 2017
  • Baybreeze
    Baybreeze replied to Would you reply again to someone's attacking email?:
    Yes had tried contacting her first .. no answer/reply. His temp was going HIGH.. he was very hot to the touch, and vomiting excessively within 15 minutes. If my own child was in that kind of distress and was literally HOT to the touch, I'd NEVER question ...  moreYes had tried contacting her first .. no answer/reply. His temp was going HIGH.. he was very hot to the touch, and vomiting excessively within 15 minutes. If my own child was in that kind of distress and was literally HOT to the touch, I'd NEVER question if the sitter called 911... that can be dangerous in a young child. The fact that she kept bringing up he was with 'strangers' was just astounding to me when he was getting treatment he SO needed. There was NO question in my mind he was in safe hands for the few minutes with the EMT's until the mom would meet him there. Someone told me that is the Least of anyone's worries when a child was very sick.. and that me staying back with the infant to care for her was no 'excuse'... Her mom came in (toddlers grandmother) came in saying 'stupid' to me blelittiling me and saying Get Out. I was SHOCKEd... this is a woman who reacts very highly to ANYthing though, her daughter told me that. But it was beyond uncalled for when the sitter who has been with that child and giv...    less
    • September 5, 2017
  • Baybreeze
    Baybreeze replied to Would you reply again to someone's attacking email?:
    Thanks, T. Appreciate that. I actually did already explain it in full, after her first aggressive message. She waited weeks, and just replied again to me, insinuating her 'concern' for me with kids and how I used 'excuses' and a lot of other really hurtfu...  moreThanks, T. Appreciate that. I actually did already explain it in full, after her first aggressive message. She waited weeks, and just replied again to me, insinuating her 'concern' for me with kids and how I used 'excuses' and a lot of other really hurtful attacks. NONE of it was true and  he got help because I helped, and because HIS safety was my concern. I just don't know whether to say something again... like basically 'I can't even Believe you would insinuate those things about me when every time ever with your son he was in care, joy and learning. and that day was the saem, He WAS SAFE ... and for you to say anything other than that is belittling. '   ? Or just let it go.. her insinuating my care with other children in future made me So so mad really . :/ I've seen her hit her own child and she is talking to me about  my care /children??? Ty I'm sorry I'm heated about it, it jsut shocked me and not sure to reply a second time.  less
    • September 5, 2017
  • Baybreeze
    Baybreeze started a discussion:
    Would you reply again to someone's attacking email?
    I usually keep my mouth shut and don't reply to people who are condescending or rude... recently there was a medical emergency with the toddler I used to care for and he became very ill.. I made a decision for him to call911 as his fever was spiking .. I ...  moreI usually keep my mouth shut and don't reply to people who are condescending or rude... recently there was a medical emergency with the toddler I used to care for and he became very ill.. I made a decision for him to call911 as his fever was spiking .. I couldn't accompany him in ambulance as needed to care for his infant sister inside. My sister was with me too but had just been released form hospital herself so was unable to care for the infant. Just as we thought of my sis accompanying him in ambulance, they left. So I did know that he was inGOOD hands though and that he was getting the treatment he so NEEDED. The mom belittled me that he was 'with strangers' and  even questioned me calling for help.. o.O That blew me away .. his health was fading and he was HOT to the touch too.. I made a decision that I do not regret.. what he had ended up being in 'some' stages, can lead to meningitis, which can lead to death. I never once thought he was eVER unsafe. She said I made 'excuses' and that she emailed me a...    less
    • September 5, 2017
  • Baybreeze
    Baybreeze replied to Grandmother who never contacts you or asks you over but expects to visit?:
    Yes, it truly is a pattern.. I'm kind, pleasant , give, and let many many things slide with friends or family over the years. they know this about me, and I think it's like 'oh It's M, it's fine..' with whatever behavior or lack of communication it is. :(...  moreYes, it truly is a pattern.. I'm kind, pleasant , give, and let many many things slide with friends or family over the years. they know this about me, and I think it's like 'oh It's M, it's fine..' with whatever behavior or lack of communication it is. :(  I actually now don't contact half my fam b/c I was only one to do so. My other friend I posted about here, I don't contact anymore. I'm just tired of it you know? I just wonder with my grandmother, to keep it up: my aunt says no, but I just don't know.... I go awhile in between visits b/c honestly I feel /sense she does not care. Wouldn't you EVER contact your own grandchild to talk to them, initiate anything?? Oh well.... I just want to drop my people pleasing habit. Ty for taking time to answer..  less
    • September 2, 2017
  • Baybreeze
    Baybreeze started a discussion:
    Grandmother who never contacts you or asks you over but expects to visit?
    I love my Grandma, but for years now she has not once asked me to come over... to show an interest in ME. To show any sort of care and want to see me... I'm the only one initiating it, and when she had to move a few yrs ago I helped her get rid of junk, d...  moreI love my Grandma, but for years now she has not once asked me to come over... to show an interest in ME. To show any sort of care and want to see me... I'm the only one initiating it, and when she had to move a few yrs ago I helped her get rid of junk, do laundry, clean etc, and she barely could utter thank you as I went out the door. My aunt asked, 'why do you go over there to visit?' but I guess it is my duty? I just feel she simply doesn't care if she sees me. Would u just continue to visit, say anything, or not visit as much?  less
    • September 1, 2017
  • Baybreeze
    Baybreeze replied to How can one feel it is OK to have your own personal power?:
    I think one of the issues I have though, is feeling selfish to 'want' any pleasures... my mother's abuse was almost cult like, and led me to believe I don't deserve goodness, or love, and just 'doing' chores or work was what life should be. So I guess I f...  moreI think one of the issues I have though, is feeling selfish to 'want' any pleasures... my mother's abuse was almost cult like, and led me to believe I don't deserve goodness, or love, and just 'doing' chores or work was what life should be. So I guess I feel I don't have a RIGHT to simple pleasures; like even my own place, or love from a partner/man. Is that ego.. to want love? I'm not sure, but if it is ego, then our very existence (to want /need love or nice things in our life) relied or been on ego? But maybe it is an ego that is not 'me me me..'  rather an ego that wants GOODNESS for oneself, and I don't believe I deserve goodness :/  less
    • August 30, 2017
  • Baybreeze
    Baybreeze replied to How can one feel it is OK to have your own personal power?:
    Thank you so much for such truthful, beautiful words B .. *huggg
    • August 30, 2017
  • Baybreeze
    Baybreeze replied to How can one feel it is OK to have your own personal power?:
    Thank you Baba... so you are saying it is not selfish to want love, or to feel good or to find joy... or be confident?
    • August 29, 2017
  • Baybreeze
    Baybreeze started a discussion:
    How can one feel it is OK to have your own personal power?
    The minute I feel confident I feel it is not my right... I fear that if I like me, and /or even feel a HINT of 'I can be a catch too' for dating, that I"m just not worth that. Or if I want to express my TRUE feelings if being chastised by someone, and sho...  moreThe minute I feel confident I feel it is not my right... I fear that if I like me, and /or even feel a HINT of 'I can be a catch too' for dating, that I"m just not worth that. Or if I want to express my TRUE feelings if being chastised by someone, and show confidence, then I"m 'bad' or I don't have a right to it. It stems from volatile trauma for years, but how would one find a way that it is OK to want or have a feeling of power/confidence?  
    • August 29, 2017
  • Baybreeze
    Baybreeze replied to On occasion, my late husband walks heavy footed down the hall were our bedroom used to be. Did a dead loved one ever do something similar?:
    Wow that is really something carbon... so you HEAR footsteps ? I 'd be just incredibly nervous lol. My friend is a nurse and when she was in her residency she worked near a room in a hospital that people told the desk, 'there's a 3 yr old boy who plays in...  moreWow that is really something carbon... so you HEAR footsteps ? I 'd be just incredibly nervous lol. My friend is a nurse and when she was in her residency she worked near a room in a hospital that people told the desk, 'there's a 3 yr old boy who plays in the closet'... As in three or four various people told the nurses they heard a boy in the closet of the room playing and humming and even the door would open slightly. Come to find out , there was a boy who passed over 50 years ago in that room.... WOW. He was a toddler when it happened and his name is on the door.. the room apparently was dedicated to him. THAT just freaked me!!!! I had never really believed in spirits coming back, or ghosts etc but hearing that story was something- just like yours; it makes me nervous yet also endearing as well :)  I'm sure your hub is with you even when u don't hear too...  less
    • August 27, 2017
  • Baybreeze
    Baybreeze replied to On occasion, my late husband walks heavy footed down the hall were our bedroom used to be. Did a dead loved one ever do something similar?:
    Wow that is so weird/eerie. I am unsure if I believe or do not believe in spirits /ghosts etc... I just don't get why a spirit would bang around or that we could 'hear' their footsteps, as they do not have solid feet lol... but I guess all things are poss...  moreWow that is so weird/eerie. I am unsure if I believe or do not believe in spirits /ghosts etc... I just don't get why a spirit would bang around or that we could 'hear' their footsteps, as they do not have solid feet lol... but I guess all things are possible.. I feel so badly about that person taking their life, that is so so sad :(  I think If I heard loud footsteps I'd feel so damn scared I'd yell, 'Hey I"M Here!!!' hehehe.... I thnk I'd be so freakin nervous !!  
    • August 27, 2017
  • Baybreeze
    Baybreeze replied to Watcha havin for dinner tonight?!:
    I love tuna!! Hey that's a great meal.... that one above looks pretty delish I might add too :P
    • August 26, 2017
  • Baybreeze
    Baybreeze replied to How would you describe strength?:
    So endearing.. your parents were both so strong, and it seems that the mental strength outshines anything. I like that; being GOOD to others is strength. And your friend being so brave, in the midst of an illness, surely strength- thanks for sharing such ...  moreSo endearing.. your parents were both so strong, and it seems that the mental strength outshines anything. I like that; being GOOD to others is strength. And your friend being so brave, in the midst of an illness, surely strength- thanks for sharing such great examples Truth :)  
    • August 26, 2017
  • Baybreeze
    Baybreeze replied to Watcha havin for dinner tonight?!:
    Oh kids only eat when THEY want right? lol. And it is a battle surely, of WHAT they'll eat- I used to sit for a 2 yr old and he would ONLY eat peanut butter, chicken, bananas or macaroni. Literally nothing else ... cutie. They'll have their tastes grow wi...  moreOh kids only eat when THEY want right? lol. And it is a battle surely, of WHAT they'll eat- I used to sit for a 2 yr old and he would ONLY eat peanut butter, chicken, bananas or macaroni. Literally nothing else ... cutie. They'll have their tastes grow with time. You sound like an awesome dad to prepare him that.. wow. Tell him even if he eats half is good!! I know kids love chicken nuggets, so if they eat nothing, that's better than nothing. Hope u have a nice dinner ...  
    • August 26, 2017
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    Baybreeze started a discussion:
    How would you describe strength?
    Not meaning physical strength.. lifting something, pushing etc. but in a different, human way?
    • August 26, 2017
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    Baybreeze started a discussion:
    Watcha havin for dinner tonight?!
    Can I join? LOL... I"m trying to plan what the heck to eat!! 
    • August 26, 2017
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    Baybreeze replied to Should we just go for it?:
    Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!
    • August 24, 2017
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    Baybreeze replied to Is there a method to your madness?:
    Lmoaaaa
    • August 24, 2017
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    Baybreeze started a discussion:
    Should we just go for it?
    • August 23, 2017
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    Baybreeze started a discussion:
    Is there a method to your madness?
    LOL
    • August 23, 2017
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    Baybreeze replied to How do you like to prepare your chicken?:
    hahahahahaha !!!! That is one chill chicky!! :P
    • August 23, 2017
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    Baybreeze replied to Would you tell someone why you didn't chat/reply to them any longer?:
    So strange, my other reply is below.... weird it didnt post here under your comment
    • August 23, 2017
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    Baybreeze replied to Would you tell someone why you didn't chat/reply to them any longer?:
    Well that's why I asked... wOULD You say the TRUTH.. we actaully did share some interests, but I've encountered this with quite a few guys: some, not all, just don't care to as k ANYthing about me... (or to other women). I ask question and they go fully i...  moreWell that's why I asked... wOULD You say the TRUTH.. we actaully did share some interests, but I've encountered this with quite a few guys: some, not all, just don't care to as k ANYthing about me... (or to other women). I ask question and they go fully into detail, but I get no interest back in me... so I usually just stop talking. 'Some' times a guy will say, 'wow thx, guess you are fake' when I just stop. When it was really I just couldn't continue doing all the conversation - so I don't know if he'd feel 'bad' about himself If I said  it, 'if' he asks, but it's really the truth (which I have a very hard time telling someone anyway for fear of friction/conflict).  I will use that line though, in future .. it's good to have : 'it didn't seem like we shared the same interests.'    less
    • August 23, 2017
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    Baybreeze replied to Would you tell someone why you didn't chat/reply to them any longer?:
    haha.. I ask interpersonal questions here rather than always mundane ones b/c I doubt a LOT of my own feelings, and if/when to speak up with someone.. that's asking for advice , b/c I feel 'wrong' a lot of the time....  so no it's not 'analyzing' any...  morehaha.. I ask interpersonal questions here rather than always mundane ones b/c I doubt a LOT of my own feelings, and if/when to speak up with someone.. that's asking for advice , b/c I feel 'wrong' a lot of the time....  so no it's not 'analyzing' anyone... In fact you are analzying me right now. If a guy spends time after time only talking about himself, and isn't interested in you, would u call that 'trying to dictate how I'd like him to be' ??? No. I'm wondering do u say something or NOT to them...... it is a casual, straight forward question.   less
    • August 23, 2017
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    Baybreeze started a discussion:
    Would you tell someone why you didn't chat/reply to them any longer?
    I have a friend who has seemed kind and smart, but the only thing is the last few times we have chatted they do not ask about me at all. I ask questions or bring up a topic, and they do not to me :/  I just do not feel  a positive vibe to contin...  moreI have a friend who has seemed kind and smart, but the only thing is the last few times we have chatted they do not ask about me at all. I ask questions or bring up a topic, and they do not to me :/  I just do not feel  a positive vibe to continue and if someone doesn't seem interested in me whatsoever, I kind of stop chatting. Would u tell the person why if they asked?   
    • August 22, 2017
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    Baybreeze replied to What fun things can I plan for these kids?:
    Ok those are great ideas!! I used to sit for a 9 year old, and she loved the movie SING! It is really cute.  She loved going on a walk and observing what she saw, then recording it in a journal :)  Another thing we did was create a Mad Libs.... ...  moreOk those are great ideas!! I used to sit for a 9 year old, and she loved the movie SING! It is really cute.  She loved going on a walk and observing what she saw, then recording it in a journal :)  Another thing we did was create a Mad Libs.... you can either buy one, or create a couple simple stories... (where you have to fill in noun, adj, verb etc. ) and the story comes out silly with the words the kids used for the 'blanks'... that was really fun. I think mall is always great if they want to browse/get an ice cream. Board games can always be cool too!! have fun!!!  less
    • August 21, 2017
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    Baybreeze replied to Do you enjoy giving your partner a massage?:
    Wow YeS .. you have a great memory!! I am from Boston, and I do remember you saying the shampoo she had made you think of those past times. I can't seem to remember if you were DongWongy, I don't think so though. It prob. was here then that we chatted Lol...  moreWow YeS .. you have a great memory!! I am from Boston, and I do remember you saying the shampoo she had made you think of those past times. I can't seem to remember if you were DongWongy, I don't think so though. It prob. was here then that we chatted Lol!!  and no problem...  :) STay cool!!  
    • August 21, 2017
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    Baybreeze replied to Do you enjoy giving your partner a massage?:
    Wow I do remember that actually!! Hmm, was it on EP? or here at AM/ I know we didn't chat as 'Baybreeze' and 'Truthseeker' here... I swear maybe it was EP.. what was ur name there if you were on EP? (you can message me if u like on that... lol.) How did u...  moreWow I do remember that actually!! Hmm, was it on EP? or here at AM/ I know we didn't chat as 'Baybreeze' and 'Truthseeker' here... I swear maybe it was EP.. what was ur name there if you were on EP? (you can message me if u like on that... lol.) How did u rem. me??   
    • August 21, 2017
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    Baybreeze replied to Do you enjoy giving your partner a massage?:
    My goodness she was a lucky lady , lol
    • August 21, 2017
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    Baybreeze replied to What are we drinking?:
    There are several intimate scenes.. hehe... a few 'sad, perverted' ones, and few 'Guud' ones hahahaha. And no problem... If a question might help connection, why not? 
    • August 18, 2017
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    Baybreeze replied to Does anybody else on the Mug play Cards Against Humanity?:
    *slaps my forehead* OH Wow I didn't even THINK it was you ..... guess you'll have a backup job/career 
    • August 18, 2017
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    Baybreeze replied to Does anybody else on the Mug play Cards Against Humanity?:
    Last month's Period.. oh GAWWWWWDDDDDD!!!! I'd like to meet the brilliant minds behind these.. Yikes LOL
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  • Have you ever slowly faded from, or stopped replying to someone who.. ?

    Does not ask you about 'you' and your life too? I feel so badly ...  moreDoes not ask you about 'you' and your life too? I feel so badly b/c the person I was getting to know/chat with was kind and warm, and seemed to really want to help people. After a few initial interactions about our overall life, and tribulations (which we connected on), I would ask them questions of their likes /passions /daily day, but they did not of me. I began to feel sullen over a bit of time, and sad. I just cared I guess, more ? I'm not sure, it felt that way a bit. It panged me that I was the only one asking so began to stop chatting.. I feel so badly , but I don't know how to just say, 'you don't seem to be curious of 'me' ?  I just find it too open/direct. It's been a bit since talking now .. the person had inquired about it (me stopping) initially, but the second time I stopped they have not inquired in quite a bit. That makes me sad too :(  What can u do?  Have u ever encountered/or faded from someone feeling badly about it?  less
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  • Is it ok to not know what you want when you set out dating, and just try it for Fun??

    I may have asked this in past, but it is on my mind today. I hav...  moreI may have asked this in past, but it is on my mind today. I have never dated due to severe childhood abuse that led to adulthood. The abuse continued into my teen/adult years, and the effects as well. I have PTSD symptoms and anxiety and while a LOT of the time I identify with that, (being less, or weak b/c of the anxiety, or just those messages for YEARS as a kid) I am also kind, humorous, patient and caring. I think those things is what a guy may enjoy about me, but my subconscious goes to, 'who do u think u are to date? You never have, and you are not like other, confident women'... :(  So could one date not really knowing the 'end' of that they want (relationship, marriage etc) ? Could u go out just for that night, just for some fun ....? I fear other guys might want more and might be dating for a serious thing, but I guess if one is upfront with not being 'serious' right away, is it ok and have you ever experienced it/tried it ?  less
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  • Ladies, would you chat with a guy who had a girlfriend?

    More specifically online? I realize they are not married, and I ...  moreMore specifically online? I realize they are not married, and I vowed I would not continue a chat even if it were friendly, with a married person, but would you if the person had a gf? I feel badly just halting /cutting off any continued chat, but I also feel weird to continue.... If I had a bf and saw him chatting with a girl I'd feel low... what are your thoughts ? I once did chat w/ a guy IRL who had a girlfriend, but it was just at a concert and he was my seatmate... he was great and even complimented me, but I d idn't even say thanks ....lol. I felt like if I did I'd be almost flirting or something, and just kind of looked away. We did laugh but then of course, the concert was over. What do you think of  it online ? (in a friendly way... I'm still feeling wary about it)  less
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  • Would you reply again to someone's attacking email?

    I usually keep my mouth shut and don't reply to people who are c...  moreI usually keep my mouth shut and don't reply to people who are condescending or rude... recently there was a medical emergency with the toddler I used to care for and he became very ill.. I made a decision for him to call911 as his fever was spiking .. I couldn't accompany him in ambulance as needed to care for his infant sister inside. My sister was with me too but had just been released form hospital herself so was unable to care for the infant. Just as we thought of my sis accompanying him in ambulance, they left. So I did know that he was inGOOD hands though and that he was getting the treatment he so NEEDED. The mom belittled me that he was 'with strangers' and  even questioned me calling for help.. o.O That blew me away .. his health was fading and he was HOT to the touch too.. I made a decision that I do not regret.. what he had ended up being in 'some' stages, can lead to meningitis, which can lead to death. I never once thought he was eVER unsafe. She said I made 'excuses' and that she emailed me a...    less
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  • Grandmother who never contacts you or asks you over but expects to visit?

    I love my Grandma, but for years now she has not once asked me t...  moreI love my Grandma, but for years now she has not once asked me to come over... to show an interest in ME. To show any sort of care and want to see me... I'm the only one initiating it, and when she had to move a few yrs ago I helped her get rid of junk, do laundry, clean etc, and she barely could utter thank you as I went out the door. My aunt asked, 'why do you go over there to visit?' but I guess it is my duty? I just feel she simply doesn't care if she sees me. Would u just continue to visit, say anything, or not visit as much?  less
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  • How can one feel it is OK to have your own personal power?

    The minute I feel confident I feel it is not my right... I fear ...  moreThe minute I feel confident I feel it is not my right... I fear that if I like me, and /or even feel a HINT of 'I can be a catch too' for dating, that I"m just not worth that. Or if I want to express my TRUE feelings if being chastised by someone, and show confidence, then I"m 'bad' or I don't have a right to it. It stems from volatile trauma for years, but how would one find a way that it is OK to want or have a feeling of power/confidence?  
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  • How would you describe strength?

    Not meaning physical strength.. lifting something, pushing etc. ...  moreNot meaning physical strength.. lifting something, pushing etc. but in a different, human way?  
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  • Watcha havin for dinner tonight?!

    Can I join? LOL... I"m trying to plan what the heck to eat!! 
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  • Should we just go for it?

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  • Is there a method to your madness?

    LOL
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  • Would you tell someone why you didn't chat/reply to them any longer?

    I have a friend who has seemed kind and smart, but the only thin...  moreI have a friend who has seemed kind and smart, but the only thing is the last few times we have chatted they do not ask about me at all. I ask questions or bring up a topic, and they do not to me :/  I just do not feel  a positive vibe to continue and if someone doesn't seem interested in me whatsoever, I kind of stop chatting. Would u tell the person why if they asked?   
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  • What are we drinking?

    I just hope there is a Pina or colada in my glass!! 
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  • Are we doing cards, games, or movie night?

    :)
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  • What to say or do to friend who said your parent abuser didn't mean it?

    That their illness wasn't their fault, and  that you have t...  moreThat their illness wasn't their fault, and  that you have to move on??? I have been through severe abuse, and had just explained that to him and how my mom bullied me, in addition to abuse. I know a 'bit' what they meant, that you have to not have it affect you anymore, but sometimes theres no CHOICE in how abuse affects you.. I just could never say to someone who said they had a lot of childhood abuse that they need to 'move on'... what would u do/say to friend who said it?  
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  • When a friend doesn't reply or say anything about something you said..?

    I have a friend in which i've told a certain story, two times, a...  moreI have a friend in which i've told a certain story, two times, and they have not said much of anything about it (online). It is a very personal story with negative things that happened to me. I responded to their negative reminiscing /past story, but they didn't really say much of mine.. I felt hurt. It was about me having physical and mental abuse. It wasn't a light topic. Do you just let it go when  a friend says nothing? Were they just too nervous to say anything ? I jsut feel if a friend tells me something that makes THEM feel so sad, I couldn't not say ANY thing :/ How do you feel?  less
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  • What would you think if a friend asked you to....?

    Remind them to text you the next day... about possible dinner pl...  moreRemind them to text you the next day... about possible dinner plans? I just don't know how to feel; my friend has asked me twice in various situations, to 'remind' her to text methe following day about hanging out. It made me feel like how important am I or our friendship that I have to remind her??? :/ Then another time she also just ignored my text completely on going out to dinner one night (we had made tentative plans). I just don't know how to feel b/c I doubt myself often and think, oham I being sensitive? (but that is also what my abusive mother used to tell me when she'd rage, 'you are being sensitive').. so I don't know how accurate that really is either..What would u think about a friend that says this ?  less
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  • Can I just borrow this chip with buffalo dip for a moment?

    *chomp* Thank you!!!!!! 
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  • Do you have a favorite movie quote?

    :)
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  • Guys do you mind if a gal makes kissy noises when giving tiny kisses?

    Or do you not enjoy it?
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  • Are you someone who likes activity/people around you, or solitude/peace and quiet?

    I think I'm more the second but occasionally enjoy the first dep...  moreI think I'm more the second but occasionally enjoy the first depending on who I am with /where I am.  
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  • Go to ER or wait until Monday?

    I have a small cyst on my skin near chest area .. been there yea...  moreI have a small cyst on my skin near chest area .. been there years. I've been told I didn't have to have it removed, but finally decided to have it done a few weeks ago; had the appoint. all set up and now out of the 4 years I've had it, it is red/infected. I'm on an antibiotic, so that helps but it is more sore and I'm unsure to go to ER to have it removed, or wait until I have my appointment on Monday. It is quite red now and I am torn what to do.  
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  • Excuse me, do you happen to give piggy back rides?

    I need to get to the waterfront! :P
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  • Guys, do you notice a woman's nail color or accessories?

    :)
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  • Watchhhhaaa doi-innn?

    ^_^
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  • What would be "somewhere over the rainbow" for you?

    For me it would be peace , love and lots of ice cream sundaes......  moreFor me it would be peace , love and lots of ice cream sundaes...along with waterfalls, pina coladas and pure relaxation every day :)  
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  • It's Friday ....are we going raging later?

    Lol ^_^
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  • When was the last time you told someone off?

    What was it over, and how did they react?
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  • Do you feel your life is authentic and true to YOU?

    Or do you feel stifled by society, others ' thoughts, or by your past ?
    Last post by Pearl - July 8, 2017
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  • Do you have any new recipes/dishes you have tried out?

    I like Pinterest but curious if anyone has any other ideas...
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  • What is something you will not compromise on?

    .
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  • Soooo, then what happened?!

    Are you going to keep me in suspense?
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  • Guys, would you rather grab a beer/watch the game with buddies, or be stargazing with your love/SO?

    Be Honest! haha
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  • Do you like comedy shows?

    Was watching Howie Mandel's new show on stand up comedians and t...  moreWas watching Howie Mandel's new show on stand up comedians and this guy was featured...this is him on Comedy central as the new Howie is not available, but he was awesome!!  
    Last post by Pearl - July 8, 2017
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  • Hmmm, what are you getting?

    I'm so hungry!!
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  • What's all the Riff Raff?!

    haha
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  • I'm sorry what was the question again?

    :P
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  • What I wouldn't give for ----------------?

    Real love and joy
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  • She walked out hurriedly, and all she could think about was ---------------?

    .
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  • What was the weirdest date you've ever been on?

    Were they rude? Chew loud? Never stop talking? or.. never talked?
    Last post by Pearl - July 4, 2017
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  • Are you an A. clean-it-up-as-you-go type, or B.wait until there's tornado mess and then clean up?

    I'm kind of a mix, but tend to sometimes! be a B. person... ahhhhhhhh
    Last post by Benedict Arnold - July 4, 2017
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  • Do you think it will really work?!

    :P
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  • Psst... wanna share secrets?

    Lol- I remember the days of childhood sleepovers and all the 'se...  moreLol- I remember the days of childhood sleepovers and all the 'secret' fun and shenanigans!  
    Last post by WM BARR . =ABSOLUTE TRASH - July 4, 2017
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  • Anyone ever have a small skin growth you thought could maybe be skin cancer?

    I have had a small growth at my hairline since last fall, and it...  moreI have had a small growth at my hairline since last fall, and it was quite small so thought nothing of it. I just saw today it appeared a couple millimeters bigger, and seemed dark and also light brown. I do have fair skin and while I typically put  sunscreen on if I'll be any length in the sun, I've checked my skin over the years (and dermatologist) and it has been fine. I may set up an appointment about this small change on this small growth but it alarmed me a little. Has anyone here ever had a change to their skin /skin tag, for up to a year? What was your experience like? Have you ever had skin cancer?  less
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  • How will you be celebrating the 4th?

    I may see fireworks display later
    Last post by Paynuts - July 4, 2017
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  • When was the last time you had utter joy or peace?

    Was it for an hour? A day? What did you feel?
    Last post by carbonproduct - July 1, 2017
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  • What is the strangest thing that has happened to you or witnessed, at a bar/club?

    I'll never forget a couple years ago I was at my fave. Karaoke b...  moreI'll never forget a couple years ago I was at my fave. Karaoke bar and my friend had left the table for a few. Some random guy comes up to me , says Can I sit here? and I replied, Yes. He starts talking just chit/chat stuff and then starts trying to get me up to dance. I like to dance but I just felt so self conscious I kept saying no, not now. He made a pouty face and then pulls up his shirt in front of me, right up to his chin, and starts dancing right THERE in front of me, rubbing his belly at the same time!! Oh Wow-  my friend came back and said, 'What the hell???' hahahaha  less
    Last post by Pearl - July 1, 2017
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  • Do you get caught up in 'future' and what it has stored?

    I know intellectually there is no 'future', it is a thought, a d...  moreI know intellectually there is no 'future', it is a thought, a dream of sorts. Yet I still worry about so many things of the future, and my own being and I try so hard to stay in the NOW, but the mind constantly is wondering ahead. Do you ever get caught up in thoughts of tomorrow or even next year, and how do you stop/stay in just the Present?  
    Last post by Autumnleaves - June 30, 2017
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  • Has anyone had this nasty cold going around?

    I can't believe I am sick in summer.. :/  I had bronchitis ...  moreI can't believe I am sick in summer.. :/  I had bronchitis in February, but what kind of germs are going around in June????  
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  • What are your thoughts on womens' eyebrows?

    Haha... Do you like eyebrows that are full/natural, slightly arc...  moreHaha... Do you like eyebrows that are full/natural, slightly arched/tweezed, or thin?  
    Last post by Benedict Arnold - July 1, 2017
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  • Guys, do you look more at what a woman is wearing, her body itself, or her face?

    In regards to physicality
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    I have  had issues trusting men for many years, and I also had a dad who treated me quite poorly, drank, physically hit me, etc.. but lately, I have seena number of men out and about with their kids, many of them young kids , baby to 6 yrs old, and each one I've seen consistently kissed, talked...

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    Hope you enjoy a burger and Coke as much as I do. :) Where are the fries, damn it?!
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    Durdle
    Thank you for the like on the "better sex in 2017" thread!
    Best Wishes,
    Durdle
    January 9, 2017

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