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Have you ever dated simply for a fun night?

I have never dated, even now in my 30's, due to anxiety and a low sense of self worth. I also think so much, about how a guy will reject me once he learns of my anxiety or past and I simply decline dates. Have you ever dated just for SIMPLY going out for the night? No thought or want even for a 'future' with anyone?

Posted - September 29, 2016

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  • 17261
    Yup, I have.
      September 30, 2016 12:39 AM MDT
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  • 81
    Isn't dating supposed to be fun?... I never heard of boring dating... or just because dating... I suppose there could be dating for self gain but that's pond scum This post was edited by ilithyia at September 30, 2016 1:28 AM MDT
      September 30, 2016 12:39 AM MDT
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  • 1138
    What I mean is dating with no intention of going into relationships..just fun. Just to go out even for one date or two... with no pressures...
      September 30, 2016 12:56 AM MDT
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  • 81
    I guess that's what dating is...getting to know someone...having fun... there shouldn't be pressure. ..be real are you going to fall head over heals in love from one date after the first date you're luck to know each other's last name and if they drink coffee. .. by the sixth date you should have an idea about the relationship and go from there... it's better to say good bye then to string someone along if they're not right for you don't settle 
      September 30, 2016 1:18 AM MDT
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  • 81
    In order to have fun you need to love yourself first
      September 30, 2016 1:20 AM MDT
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  • I did it once 'cause I needed an alibi. 
      September 30, 2016 1:27 AM MDT
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  • Do tell
      September 30, 2016 1:47 AM MDT
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  • 22891
    no, i wish, guys wont even ask me out, i have no idea why
      October 2, 2016 6:54 PM MDT
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