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Jaimie

Do you think toxic people have some kind of alert system to know when to show back up in your life when things start going good? I do.

Posted - September 3, 2020
Tag : #TOXIC

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  • 13395
    Yes, I think that toxic person more often than not was myself. But I did have a 'friend' one time who always seemed to make her appearance just when I had a bit of cash surplus and she just happened to be needy.
    And, o' course I am the kind of person who cannot say 'no' .. dammit. 

    This post was edited by Kittigate at September 5, 2020 3:38 PM MDT
      September 3, 2020 11:08 PM MDT
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  • 7408
    I’ve gotten pretty good at saying no Or just ignoring toxic people when they try and show back up in my life. 
      September 4, 2020 4:51 AM MDT
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  • 17596
    No.  People are in your life if you allow them to be.
      September 4, 2020 12:37 AM MDT
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  • 7408
    Not what I asked. 
      September 4, 2020 4:51 AM MDT
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  • That's what they do.  Their ankle bracelet lets them know whenever you're truly feeling happy so they can reliably remind you that their existence will forever be a part of your reality. 
      September 4, 2020 6:44 AM MDT
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  • 7408
    Eh, maybe I should go in witness protection program :) 
      September 4, 2020 9:06 AM MDT
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  • I wonder if they have any WP openings in the mountains. 
      September 4, 2020 9:20 AM MDT
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  • 7408
    I bet they do, I’ll make sure there’s a shed for you. 
      September 4, 2020 11:02 AM MDT
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  • Ugh you know me so well.  No one else knows my love for living in sheds. 
      September 4, 2020 12:26 PM MDT
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  • 7408
    if you’re nice to me I might let you leave the shed and come inside the mountain cabin for showers and TV time. This post was edited by Jaimie at September 4, 2020 12:31 PM MDT
      September 4, 2020 12:29 PM MDT
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  • How could I not be nice when you take such good care of me?
      September 4, 2020 12:32 PM MDT
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  • 7408

    That’s what I was thinking too. 

      September 4, 2020 12:35 PM MDT
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  • Where are you pointing????
      September 4, 2020 12:38 PM MDT
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  • 7408
    lol, down? 
      September 4, 2020 12:40 PM MDT
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  • Oh...

      September 4, 2020 12:43 PM MDT
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  • 7408
    What are you ruining the mood? You know I feel about minions.... 
      September 4, 2020 12:45 PM MDT
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  • Hahaha....I know....couldn't help it.  I'm a mood killer. 
      September 4, 2020 12:46 PM MDT
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  • 7408

    Back to the shed with you. 

      September 4, 2020 12:48 PM MDT
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  • 13395
    USA was doing well, then along came Trump
      September 4, 2020 8:23 AM MDT
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  • 7408
    Lol, the ex friend that reached out to me yesterday is My Trump I guess. 
      September 4, 2020 9:06 AM MDT
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  • 10052
    Maybe. But even if they do, you can choose not to let them in. 

    I think it's more often that they show up when things aren't really going so good, and they figure they can sneak their way back in. In that case, see same response as above. 
      September 4, 2020 2:36 PM MDT
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  • 7408
    Good point, either way it’s time to lock all your doors,  stop, drop and roll. 
      September 4, 2020 6:52 PM MDT
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  • 10052
    Absofockinglutely!!

    Shut it down. 
      September 4, 2020 6:55 PM MDT
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