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Do you think toxic people have some kind of alert system to know when to show back up in your life when things start going good? I do.

Posted - September 3

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  • 8915
    Yes, I think that toxic person more often than not was myself. But I did have a 'friend' one time who always seemed to make her appearance just when I had a bit of cash surplus and she just happened to be needy.
    And, o' course I am the kind of person who cannot say 'no' .. dammit. 

    This post was edited by Kittigate at September 5, 2020 3:38 PM MDT
      September 3, 2020 11:08 PM MDT
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  • 5169
    I’ve gotten pretty good at saying no Or just ignoring toxic people when they try and show back up in my life. 
      September 4, 2020 4:51 AM MDT
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  • 13478
    No.  People are in your life if you allow them to be.
      September 4, 2020 12:37 AM MDT
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  • 5169
    Not what I asked. 
      September 4, 2020 4:51 AM MDT
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  • 866
    That's what they do.  Their ankle bracelet lets them know whenever you're truly feeling happy so they can reliably remind you that their existence will forever be a part of your reality. 
      September 4, 2020 6:44 AM MDT
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  • 5169
    Eh, maybe I should go in witness protection program :) 
      September 4, 2020 9:06 AM MDT
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  • 866
    I wonder if they have any WP openings in the mountains. 
      September 4, 2020 9:20 AM MDT
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  • 5169
    I bet they do, I’ll make sure there’s a shed for you. 
      September 4, 2020 11:02 AM MDT
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  • 866
    Ugh you know me so well.  No one else knows my love for living in sheds. 
      September 4, 2020 12:26 PM MDT
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  • 5169
    if you’re nice to me I might let you leave the shed and come inside the mountain cabin for showers and TV time. This post was edited by CameraObscura at September 4, 2020 12:31 PM MDT
      September 4, 2020 12:29 PM MDT
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  • 866
    How could I not be nice when you take such good care of me?
      September 4, 2020 12:32 PM MDT
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  • 5169

    That’s what I was thinking too. 

      September 4, 2020 12:35 PM MDT
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  • 866
    Where are you pointing????
      September 4, 2020 12:38 PM MDT
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  • 5169
    lol, down? 
      September 4, 2020 12:40 PM MDT
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  • 866
    Oh...

      September 4, 2020 12:43 PM MDT
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  • 5169
    What are you ruining the mood? You know I feel about minions.... 
      September 4, 2020 12:45 PM MDT
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  • 866
    Hahaha....I know....couldn't help it.  I'm a mood killer. 
      September 4, 2020 12:46 PM MDT
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  • 5169

    Back to the shed with you. 

      September 4, 2020 12:48 PM MDT
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  • 8915
    USA was doing well, then along came Trump
      September 4, 2020 8:23 AM MDT
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  • 5169
    Lol, the ex friend that reached out to me yesterday is My Trump I guess. 
      September 4, 2020 9:06 AM MDT
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  • 4557
    Maybe. But even if they do, you can choose not to let them in. 

    I think it's more often that they show up when things aren't really going so good, and they figure they can sneak their way back in. In that case, see same response as above. 
      September 4, 2020 2:36 PM MDT
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  • 5169
    Good point, either way it’s time to lock all your doors,  stop, drop and roll. 
      September 4, 2020 6:52 PM MDT
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  • 4557
    Absofockinglutely!!

    Shut it down. 
      September 4, 2020 6:55 PM MDT
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