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"Oh wad some pow'r the giftie gie us to see oursels as ithers see us". I dunno. Could we really handle the truth? How?

Words quoted are from "To a louse on seeing one on a lady's bonnet at church" by Poet Robert Burns.


We are not the best judges of how others perceive us. Why do we think we are? 

Posted - October 18, 2016

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  • 2219
    Wheeled out every Burns' night.


    Perfect excuse to get dressed up in our kilts, have a haggis and a dram.   
      October 18, 2016 4:04 PM MDT
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  • 113301
    Haggis? HAGGIS: "A traditional pudding made of the heart , liver, etc. of a sheep or calf minced  with suet and oatmeal, seasoned and boiled in the stomach of the animal". THAT Haggis? So does it taste like chicken? DRAM: A  small drink of liquor. I'll pass on the haggis and join you in the dram! Thank you for your reply Malizz and Happy Wednesday! :P
      October 19, 2016 2:59 AM MDT
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  • 3719
    Perhaps it's because most us don't like to admit even to ourselves, that we do have faults, shortcomings and weaknesses.

    If we do and admit them to others, we risk being accused of talking ourselves down or of self-pity - but talk up our strengths etc., and we risk being thought vain!

    "A dram" - ah now, even though a Sassenach whose always had only a mile or so to go to be able to paddle in the English Channel, I can think of plenty of perfect excuses for a wee dram!
      October 19, 2016 2:46 AM MDT
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  • 113301
     I think admitting our shortcomings, weaknesses and faults is a strength and a plus Durdle. Denying them emphasizes how weak and shiftless someone is. Thank you for your reply and Happy Wednesday! :)
      October 19, 2016 3:10 AM MDT
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  • 46117
    I thought it was James Joyce for a second.
      October 19, 2016 2:55 AM MDT
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