TRue dat. What kind of mom did you have SA? Mine? Well say I did 99% great perfection!. What did she focus on? The 1%. She couldn't help it. My dad was the opposite. Whatever I did was fine with him. He is the one who told me that if I wanted to do or be anything all I would have to do is work to achieve it and I would. He is the one who gave me confidence in myself. I know my mom loved me as best she could but it was my dad that my baby sis and I looked to for validation. He NEVER failed us. He tried to explain our mom to us in the most loving and kind terms that he could. I never did quite get her but he was my ROCK. Thank you for your reply! :)