I was a painfully shy child WW. So I became a Loner because I had no other choice. I also skipped a few grades in school which made me a lot younger than the other kids and a target for them. The one thing I joined years ago was Answerbag because my son Rich was an integral part of it. He invited me to check it out. I did. He left. I stayed until it left me. Then I came to Answermug because I found some of my Answerbag friends here. Though I am a Loner I have come to love an internet social site that affords me the opportunity of sharing my thoughts with people and having them share their thoughts with me. It is cathartic. I use it to work out any problems I'm having. If you pay attention to the questions I ask they come in waves and will let you know what is upsetting me. Asking is all I want. I expect no replies so when I get them I am always surprised and for the most part very pleased. I can't lose! I'm in a catbird seat! Thank you for your reply and Happy Election Day Tuesday to you m'dear! :)