Nepenthe..."anything inducing a pleasurable sensation of forgetfulness, especially of sorrow or trouble." I think we all need a huge dose of that (excluding the PET people of course). I have been to Nepenthe. It was many years ago. There was a HUGE outdoor patio overlooking the ocean. A place where people could just hang out and appreciate the scenery. The food was great the views were incredible and the ambiance was unbelievable. Nepenthe. Those of us who are anti-PET are in great need of surcease from sorrow. A vicarious trip to Nepenthe and the food and dancing could help a lot. Maybe we can all imagine it. Just remembering my experience there is calming. Only temporarily of course. Tomorrow will come and nothing will have changed. But just for today? Imagining all of us (except the PET people) there celebrating life helps a lot.