Discussion»Questions»answerMug Members» Being kind is never the wrong thing to be. Being an A**hole is never the right thing to be. Yet some opt for A**holeness constantly. Why?
Cos they are incapable of changing their ways? they are set in their ways? they don't know any different and don't want to learn different patterns of behaviour?? I don't know but ultimately they seem to hurt themselves as much as they hurt anyone else.... most are very sad lonely people...
They are DdbTD. They are also always bitter, angry and focused on the negative. They only answer to insult/attack. How sad is that? Once I get their number and can identify them then when they answer one of my questions I simply don't read their posts because I know from experience it will be some sort of attack laden with insults. When I see the names of those I ignore I always think of "misery loves company". They seem to be miserable 24/7. Why that is I don't know but when I"m miserable I stay away from other people. I don't want to inflict that me on anyone. Thank you for your reply and Happy Monday! :)
Being kind is never wrong, but sometimes it is kindest to BE an ahole and put the person straight before they become an ahole themselves permanently. It's a dirty job, but someone has to do it.
Thank you for your reply Sharonna and Happy Monday. I am ill-suited for taking on such a job as that so I leave it to those who do it better. I know my limitations. :)
Hi Zack! Why do you think that is? Misery loves company? They always fell like sh** so they like to spread it around and make others feel crappy too? I have never understand that. When I feel crappy I stay away from people. I don't like to inflict that me on anyone. Thank you for your reply and Happy Monday. I hope all goes with you my friend! :)
Maybe that's it MS. I know when I'm in a lousy mood I stay away from others. No reason to inflict that me on anyone so I don't. I've always wondered what kind of person takes pride in being insulting? T'is a puzzlement to me. Thank you for your reply and Happy Monday! :)
Or to be ignored altogether. Once I identify those people I ignore them/avoid them/never read anything they post. Of course that is only possible on an internet social site. One cannot always avoid them in real life. However I have only experienced them on internet social sites. I think when people can hide behind a computer screen and anonymity they are very brave and will say things they would be too cowardly to say to your face. Thank you for your reply Priya and Happy Monday! :)
I just had a thought that was triggered by this reply of yours and I am gonna ask a question about it Priya. You'll recognize it when you see it. Thank you for your reply and Happy Tuesday m'dear! :)
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