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When i think someone is not open to my thoughts then i do not waste my time sharing my pearls with them..
Yes, usually because I'm trying to figure out if it's really important or not. Also sometimes when you just give it some time the issue comes up on it's own and the people involved can be in the same frame of mind to discuss it. Make sense?
Absolutely it makes a lotta
sense m'dear! Sometimes just letting it sit and doing/saying nothing is the best thing you can do. Gives a better perspective. Thank you for your reply jhl! :)
:-) :-)
Your question reminds me of a story from the early days of the NBA. I forget exactly which particular personalities were involved, so we'll call them Coach and Referee. Coach was upset with how Referee was calling the game and felt that his team was being disadvatanged by the Referee's performance. But complaining to referees can lead to technical fouls (essentially free points for the other team), so Coach had the following exchange with the Referee:
Coach: Referee, I know you can give me technical fouls for anything I say to you, but can you give me a technical for what I'm thinking?
Referee: No...I don't think so...
Coach: In that case, I'm thinking that you're a sonofabitch!
...;-D...
i dont always talk about what im thinking, its not always people's business
Very true pearl. Thank you for your answer! :)
Hahahahahahah! That is awesome! Mahalo for your answer OS! :)
