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This seems a popular conversational remark made when two people are discussing a problem with both a root cause and potential solution that neither can agree upon.
It might involve some work or discomfort.
It's shorthand for you have some form of control over an issue, but you won't change your opinion and allow a different approach to be tried to remedy the issue ... Some people attitude and resistance to change hold us all up
a part
I think people always want a solution but most don't have problem solving skills.
maybe they just dont know how to find a solution
