First thing I do is look around and see just who is 'defining' me as failure... Long life experience, the so-called failures can come back around with unexpected wonderful results...
However, the actual most recent failure was when I tried to make gluten-free bread and...sadly...this is what my wonderful bread did NOT look like!
I tried to join nextdoor.com. They confirm identity by sending a postcard in the mail. Population in this town is mostly winter tourists in trailer parks, so USPS does not deliver to street addresses here. Nextdoor.com does not accept a P.O. box as a valid address. So customer service offered to accept an email from another member in my neighborhood. I am the first person in the neighborhood to try to join.
The diet I decided to go on beginning today. No more fattening food etc. Ate lunch then forgot I had already eaten and had another lunch. oops. Tomorrow is another day. sigh