You've recognised that not all change is for the good. You're right, of course. And yet, some of the unpleasant changes that are forced on us can cause our lives to tilt into other directions that may eventually be richer and more satisfying. (It's happened to me a couple of times.)
Change, I am so used to it,Didge. Before marriage I travelled a lot because Papa worked in a transferable job, now after marriage to a software consultant I'm again on the move....;))