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What one question would serve as a good dating litmus test?

A singular question that would tell you everything you need to know about a person, so you'd know if it was worthwhile pursuing something with them...
(And none of that "people are complex and one question isn't enough" jazz. I want answers! Dang it.)

Posted - March 30, 2017
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  • 3191
    There isn't one for me.  Too many people today have done the dating sites or played the flirtation games on other social sites, and have a pretty good idea of the "best" response to give...just as many did long before the internet.  People can say something that sounds just perfect...that does not equate to squat.

    If there's chemistry, it's a damn good start.  Without that, it's a no-go...and no answer, no matter how correct or eloquently stated, can make up for that deficiency. This post was edited by Bozette at March 30, 2017 9:42 PM MDT
      March 30, 2017 9:07 PM MDT
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  • Do you like sleeping in your own bed?
      March 30, 2017 9:43 PM MDT
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  • 3191
    Ha ha!  No doubt a good question!!!
      March 30, 2017 9:49 PM MDT
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  • Hey, sometimes it's too hot and humid to have another body.
      March 30, 2017 9:53 PM MDT
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  • 3191
    Eh, there's more than that.  I like to read, he might not like the light...stolen blankets, etc.  When cuddling or snuggling works, it just works...the rest of the time...bumping uglies doesn't demand a snugglefest afterwards.  I like my space and I figure others do, too.  There is no law of the universe that mandates we have to sleep together in actuality after doing so figuratively.
      March 30, 2017 10:03 PM MDT
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  • YUP!
      March 30, 2017 10:10 PM MDT
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  • 3191
      March 30, 2017 10:12 PM MDT
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  • 17261
    Could be a soft one like what do you like about dating? Or, it could be the really confronting one, what do your exes say about you? Hmm. Sorta let the cat out of the bag thing, but find your own style. Yus.

      March 31, 2017 4:11 AM MDT
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  • 17600
    Would you please fill out this questionnaire? 
      March 31, 2017 12:49 PM MDT
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  • 22891
    i asked someone from a nanny agency what kind of job they did, and they never answered, made me wonder if they were doing something illegal
      April 3, 2017 3:48 PM MDT
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