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Veena.K

Do you stand up to people who step all over you?

Posted - April 19, 2017
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  • Usually.  
      April 19, 2017 11:10 PM MDT
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  • 7683
    I've seen it here Glis;))
      April 20, 2017 4:46 PM MDT
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  • 17261
    Yes. And next, turn my back on them.
      April 20, 2017 12:18 AM MDT
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  • 7683
    Yes, just ignore the ignoble;))
      April 20, 2017 4:46 PM MDT
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  • 17261
    I keep working on that spin on my heal when turning around. Is still not timed correctly at all times. Meh. ;-)
      April 20, 2017 4:48 PM MDT
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  • Most of the time, no I do not...it's typically their problem, not mine...
    But then there have been a few times when they are hurting people badly and then I have gone to the wall.
      April 20, 2017 12:54 AM MDT
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  • 7683
    Yes, dear Virginia, I'm sure you are like me too gentle and too kind. I've been trampled upon because of my meekness then I decided to ignore the ignoble;)) Sometimes when my patience runs out I pounce like a harmed deer;))
    Even on AM, if someone antagonizes me, I remain passive, I just ignore their responses and turn a blind eye. This post was edited by Veena.K at April 21, 2017 3:24 AM MDT
      April 20, 2017 4:50 PM MDT
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  • 14795
    I know im only short Veena.....but in no way am I an easy walk over.....I would instruct them to tread carefully and insist they keep instep with my treads......
    Partly though it would be my own fault for not checking that I had ladders in my stockings ....even though people tend to stair at me....... :)p  This post was edited by Nice Jugs at April 20, 2017 4:53 PM MDT
      April 20, 2017 1:30 AM MDT
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  • 7683
    Ha ha ha you juggler of words;))
      April 20, 2017 4:51 PM MDT
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  • 14795
    :)p
      April 20, 2017 4:58 PM MDT
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  • 7683
    ;))
      April 20, 2017 4:58 PM MDT
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  • Yes I do! I'll get right back at them and then never see or talk to that person again! Maybe that's a fault but just the way I am.
      April 20, 2017 6:42 AM MDT
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  • 7683
    It is not a fault at all, it is a very wise and right approach,Rooster!
      April 20, 2017 4:54 PM MDT
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  • 19937
    I try to prevent them getting the opportunity to walk all over me in the first place, but if it happens, I don't take it lying down.
      April 20, 2017 8:23 AM MDT
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  • 7683
    Yes, that I should really good.
      April 20, 2017 4:54 PM MDT
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  • It is very difficult for me to do because my bellowing, raging hate filled, POS father has poisoned my entire life and made me fear everyone.
      April 20, 2017 9:50 AM MDT
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  • 7280
    That concerns me.  You were worth much more than that, and he had no right to treat you that way and to leave you with such a compromised defense system.

    Professional counseling would be a great use of your time and energy---assertiveness---not aggression---can be a great asset for you.
      April 20, 2017 10:02 AM MDT
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  • I will hate him beyond the last syllable of recorded time.
      April 20, 2017 7:43 PM MDT
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  • 3523
    I used to.  Then I had a boss who was a psychopath and would have ruined my career except that I raised the issue to superiors through the proper channels and was offered an early retirement with full, generous benefits.  The lawyer who helped me said I out maneuvered him.  That felt really good!
      April 20, 2017 9:06 PM MDT
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