If you could have just one more day with someone you loved who had died whom would it be and why?

That's not an easy question to answer. Initially I thought my mom, as I lost her when I was pretty young. Then I thought...would I really want to bring all that horror back, full force, for one day....my answer is no. I'd rather leave the past where it belongs...it was hard enough the first time.

My Grandfather. There are so many things I'd like to ask him now I am older. I really miss him.

It would be my Father. Being one of eight children one-on-one time was scarce. He died way to young.

I came from a small nuclear family.  The only people who were close to me were my father, mother, maternal grandfather, and my aunt (my mother's sister).

To the first three, I would like to sit down and tell them that I realize they did their best;, I have totally recovered; and it really is OK now---and not everything you did was wrong.

To my aunt---Thank you for truly loving and caring about me; you were most likely what kept me going.

My husband who died on Halloween of 2016 because I forgot to tell him never to leave me or i would kill him. ;(

It would be my soulmate and love of my life who I lost to the big C in 2005.
And my parents. I miss all of them very much.