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Why do men let women put them in the "Friend Zone" when the men know and the world knows all they want to do is "Hit" it?

The world is dismayed at the situation :(

Posted - July 4, 2017

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  • The "friendzone" is a bullshight term men invented to soth their egos when rejected ,  in my opinion. " woman are NOT machines you put kindness coins in until sex falls out" :/ 
      July 4, 2017 6:22 PM MDT
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  • 46117
    Because all the female in question wants is to NOT HIT IT WITH THE GUY IN THE FRIEND ZONE.   He's there for a reason.  He is there to either be a friend or be no friend at all and gone.

    Sorry, that's da trut...

      July 4, 2017 7:05 PM MDT
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  • Yessssss! This^
      July 4, 2017 7:22 PM MDT
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  • 2327
    "let"? lol. How would you NOT "let" them? 

    Some guys are okay with being friend-zoned, but for those guys who really wants to pursue an in intimate relationship with said lady, it's a lot harder to take. Especially if they desire a serious, long-term relationship. It's best to cut all ties if that's the case, or else you'll be jealous/envious of all of her boyfriends, you'll also be living with unhealthy sexual fantasies for her while selling yourself short on someone else you could be potentially dating.

    This post was edited by righty1 at July 5, 2017 1:32 AM MDT
      July 4, 2017 7:19 PM MDT
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  • 5614
    Aye, indeed.
      July 4, 2017 7:27 PM MDT
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  • I do believe it is "tap it" not hit it ... wait, hmmm, yes maybe hit it too. 
      July 4, 2017 8:55 PM MDT
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  • It's " tap that" or " hit it" 
      July 4, 2017 9:07 PM MDT
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  • "light it up" 
      July 4, 2017 9:12 PM MDT
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  • That goes without saying :) 
      July 4, 2017 9:14 PM MDT
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  • 5451
    It's just one of those things that guys and girls don't see the same way.

    My dad told me never to say Let's just be friends but to just say yes or no instead but that's kind of hard to do sometimes if the guy never actually asks you out on a date but thinks he can start out with just being friends and go from there.

    I'm married now but it began with my husband specifically asking me out on a date.
      July 5, 2017 1:24 AM MDT
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  • 7126
    Because hope springs eternal. Especially for "hitting it." 
      July 5, 2017 1:36 AM MDT
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  • 22891
    maybe they want them in the friend zone
      July 5, 2017 3:41 PM MDT
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