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Why do people have opposite sex friends and not just same sex friends?

Posted - July 13, 2017

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  • 46117
    I don't know.
      July 13, 2017 10:37 AM MDT
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  • 6477
    DUnno... but there are some generalisations... please note that these are not my opinions necessarily, just reporting the generalisation... women, and I suppose men to some extent can view those of the same sex as competition... this includes the stereotypical idea that women are often bitchier to each other than they are to men..  Men report that they are happy in the company of men but that they don't feel they can discuss feelings or problems with other men for feat of being seen as weak.

    I don't really know about that... but for me I prefer men friends... I just seem to get on well with men, find them easier to talk to, I think perhaps more than anything .. .men and women, in the best way, can compliment each other..
      July 13, 2017 10:38 AM MDT
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  • 5354
    They could be school-mates, or work-mates, or fellow lovers of model railways, ... A full list of all the possibilities would go on for several pages, so I'll stop here.
      July 13, 2017 10:40 AM MDT
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  • 7126
    Because friendship involves more than just a person's gender.
      July 13, 2017 10:41 AM MDT
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  • 44618
    1. Maybe they are hoping to get laid.

    2. I don't need no stinking friends.
      July 13, 2017 11:49 AM MDT
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  • 17596
    Why do people  eat flat pasta rather than just tube pasta?

      July 13, 2017 12:58 PM MDT
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  • Your guess is as good as mine.
      July 24, 2017 4:11 PM MDT
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  • 22891
    probably cause they like them and want to be friends
      July 13, 2017 1:47 PM MDT
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  • 46117
    Why do people have brothers and sisters instead of just one or the other?
      July 24, 2017 4:15 PM MDT
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  • Because they have no control over the sperm in charge of the conception of their siblings. It's biology.
      July 26, 2017 6:18 PM MDT
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  • 46117
    Why do people have mothers AND fathers instead of just mothers OR fathers?

      July 24, 2017 4:18 PM MDT
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  • Because it's biologically impossible to have the one without the other.
      July 26, 2017 6:16 PM MDT
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  • 6098
    Well if you enjoy someone's company then you want to be friends with them.  If you can't be friends with women then maybe you don't respect us for some reason or don't enjoy us. There are men who just can't relate to us except through sex and they don't respect us.

    I have always found it easier to be friends with men as they are more accepting and less judgmental and more encouraging of me.  But women understand me better but men are more interesting.  My husband is my best friend. 
      October 22, 2017 7:46 AM MDT
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