Ive lived in the same place about 5 1/2 yrs and wondered if i should move away, I never have anyone to have so much as a cup of coffee with, literally, if i go to church noone will invite me over for lunch or anything, or to do anything with them, ive been going to this one church friday nights and after church i know people go out together to eat or whatever but im never invited, and ive been going there 1 1/2 yrs, as much as i like the church i wish they would show an interest in spending time with me, places where i lived before i used to go out with friends all the time and wondered if i should move back sometimes, thought of doing stuff like the big sister program but i heard you gotta have a job and i dont have one, nursing homes, i heard where i live they dont let you visit people, thought of visiting people that dont have visitors either to kind of fill each others needs. im out of work so its not like i can hang out with coworkers, any suggestions? tired of living my life like some monk