What was the last thing you did you expected to not enjoy but ended up having a good time?
I went to a professional baseball game on Monday night... I thought it would be boring as' but they brought me alcohol right to me seat and people kept yelling "SEND IT" I loved it :)
yeah :) base-ball Is so boring to me on television. I had so much fun at the live game ... I drank though ... a lot :) then i went and rode roller coasters all next day with a hangover. I'm a super hero then! Or an idiot ;)
TV baseball is how someone could torture me to get answers. I loathe it.
Funny thing, I've been to a handful of pro games in my life and always hated them. I brought magazines to look at (pre-smart phone). This time I totally expected to be on my phone or something, but it was fun and I was completely surprised. Keeping an open mind is a really good thing. I'm working on trying it more. :)
The last thing I did that went ok?? My life hasn't been perfect lately so the only thing I remember was going to my ex's house a few months ago so she could "talk" to me about some things she did and I was expecting to fight with her, but we hooked up instead. So that happened... It's over now, but that's all I can think of that went good.
I guess hooking up is sometimes better than a fight in the moment with an ex :) I split with someone last December and kept randomly hooking up and going back for about four months later. I've been clean break for about 3 months now from him . YAY ME! :) no more spider webs. I understand your situation probably different though. Going back was toxic for me.
Me too. My ex was living a double life and the more things I find out or the more I try to love her the more painful it is. Like I just about totally lost it because she had other guys and I loved her. So hooking up with her is hard on the heart. I married her and I don't even recognize who she is anymore. Oh well, time to move on. I just gotta forget her.
Wasn't judging you :) my last relationship wasn't even someone I was inlove with ....was more a rebound thing. i just kept going back on nights I didn't want to be alone cos i wasn't ready to get into something new. And I'm not one to randomly hook up with strangers, cos gross :) you're situation is a bit more complicated cos love involved. I won't even talk about those relationships here :)
I have a child too so I still see her when I pick him up. I have to look away and leave quickly so she stays out of my mind, LoL! It's fu**ed up, to be betrayed and then still raise a child together forever. Anyway, I'm trying go get healthy and then I hopefully will date and forget that woman I loved for 15 years, LoL! I guess it's possible and I'm gonna try.
You'll always probably love her a little cos she's the mom of your child :) that's okay. Just don't let it fook up your chance to find happiness with someone else. The best revenge on an ex that betrayed you is being happy snd not holding a grudge. DO IT! :)
Thanks, but I love who I thought she was and the good memories I have. I don't think I love her like I used to. She wanted me to take her back and she wanted me to make love to her, but I can't feel the same way about her now. I could hook up with her, but that's all it is. I see her as a traitor in my mind. A sexy traitor, but still the enemy. I know what you mean though, I'll always care a little about her and want her to want me because I'm hurt, but she'll never be the same person I fell in love with again I'll never trust her again. Thanks for listening. : )
This post was edited by Benedict Arnold at August 17, 2017 5:48 AM MDT
You're welcome ... anytime :) you seem like a good person , you'll find your happiness because you deserve to. I believe in karma. That's why I sleep under my bed in the fetal position;) karma is gonna get me!!! :/ I'm not as good a person as you. im better though.i still have a heavy dose of bad karma coming my way. Bah!
LoL! I'm not perfect either, but I would've died for her so losing her was the one thing that really broke me. Anyway, I don't know about your karma, but maybe some of this sh_t that happened is because I had it coming?? Who knows, but I guess there's always tomorrow and we can both be good people if we try. I guess I should go to work now, I work nights but it was nice go talk to you, thank you. : )
"Visiting my uncle." For a month, my uncle's phone has been busy every time I've called. He'd had a pacemaker operation, not long ago, and I was becoming worried. So I drive to his house, thinking the worst and as I pulled up in the driveway, his garage door opens and he's standing there ... right as rain!
Walk and meal out with work colleagues recently... I was not looking forward to the walk.. I have an old injury Achilles Tendonitis and I was worried I wouldn't be able to keep up and would get left behind or find it too difficult and so wouldn't be able to enjoy the meal. It was actually all lovely, the day was sunny and warm. We walked along a river and then went for a meal which was very nice - I had melon salad. I did get a lift home from an outside source but that was good too :)
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