Discussion » Questions » Relationships » How do you feel when your partner checks out other people?
Benedict Arnold

How do you feel when your partner checks out other people?

Posted - August 24, 2017
Tags : None

Responses


  • 46117
    If someone is beautiful, they are beautiful.

    If I am with someone who is supposed to love me, they'd better be respectful as to how they respond to beauty. 

    If they are acting like an ass and acting like they wish they had that?  Then it is time to let them have that and take off and find someone who is not going to try and better-deal me the second they have a chance.

    That is not insulting to ME.  It shows what an insecure ahole I thought I loved.

    This post was edited by WM BARR . =ABSOLUTE TRASH at August 24, 2017 5:20 PM MDT
      August 24, 2017 1:06 PM MDT
    7

  • 7126
    Wise words indeed.  
      August 24, 2017 6:26 PM MDT
    1

  • 7939
      August 24, 2017 1:10 PM MDT
    9

  • 8214
    Wow, I take it you are  bit touchy about that subject.  lol
      August 24, 2017 1:16 PM MDT
    6

  • She has made her opinion very clear. : )
      August 24, 2017 1:38 PM MDT
    3

  • Don't hold back now. We'll understand.
      August 24, 2017 1:50 PM MDT
    3

  • I can't have 2 "Asker's picks" I tried, but I think this one is fantastic also.
    Thank you. : )

    ASKER'S PICK #2!!!!
      August 24, 2017 5:39 PM MDT
    0

  • I would never do what that guy in the picture did, but I have noticed other women before and sometimes my ex wife would point them out to me and say "Wow, I bet you like her butt" then she'd laugh at me because I'd get embarrassed and have to smile.
    She knew that I saw the woman go by no matter how discreet I tried to be about it. : ) This post was edited by Benedict Arnold at August 24, 2017 5:20 PM MDT
      August 24, 2017 1:21 PM MDT
    3

  • 13395
    I could not care- she will never find anyone as good looking,  intelligent and with such a great personality like me.
      August 24, 2017 1:35 PM MDT
    4

  • 7126
    Humble too.
      August 24, 2017 1:53 PM MDT
    3

  • 13395
    Uh.. yes!
      August 24, 2017 1:55 PM MDT
    3

  • "Checking-out is fine" ...  rubbing it in, like Mr. Indiscreet in the picture, is a good way to be alone.
      August 24, 2017 1:48 PM MDT
    3

  • 7126
    He can look at the menu but he'd better not order anything.   


      August 24, 2017 1:55 PM MDT
    4

  • 585
    Doesn't bother me. If I do it, then he can do it too. But I agree with the rest - be respectful and courteous of my feelings while doing so. 
      August 24, 2017 3:05 PM MDT
    5

  • I just saw this somewhere online and I'm not saying that I agree with it, but do you guys think it applies to this question?
      August 24, 2017 3:10 PM MDT
    2

  • 585
    I think this is in a similar vein, yes. My response to this is that if a person doesn't get jealous when someone else has their partner's attention, it may just mean that they don't give a sh*t. In other words, If I believe I'm worth complete and full attention and my partner isn't giving me that (in the big picture), then that's my partner's loss. Doesn't make me jealous - just helps me weed through the bad partners. ;) 

    Pertaining to this question specifically, I think it's a reach. Doesn't always apply, ya know?
      August 24, 2017 3:20 PM MDT
    2

  • 7126
    Strikes me as applying to immature, insecure people playing games.
      August 24, 2017 5:31 PM MDT
    1

  • I guess so.
    I never thought of jealousy as a good thing either.
    I actually think the opposite may be true.
    People who are constantly jealous and paranoid that they are being cheated on may feel that way only because they have or would like to cheat themselves.
    My ex used to have nightmares about me cheating with some blonde woman and she'd get mad at me over her dreams, LoL!
    Then she's the one who ended up cheating in real life.

    This post was edited by Benedict Arnold at August 24, 2017 6:39 PM MDT
      August 24, 2017 5:51 PM MDT
    1

  • 7126
    Maybe it's because I'm older but I have absolutely no tolerance for BS and games. Like I said, that's the arena for the immature and insecure. I refuse to waste precious time on such nonsense. Makes me want to say "come back when you grow up and if I'm still available, we'll talk."
      August 24, 2017 6:25 PM MDT
    1

  • 13071
    Grossed out. Hes dead in a box in the living room. ;+
      August 24, 2017 5:04 PM MDT
    1

  • 7126
    You really do have a way with words.
      August 24, 2017 5:25 PM MDT
    1

  • 13071
    Chess, i snow.
      August 24, 2017 5:27 PM MDT
    1

  • 7126
    Exactly.
      August 24, 2017 5:28 PM MDT
    1

  • 13071
    Exactly, exactly. Oh, and exactly. :D
      August 24, 2017 5:37 PM MDT
    1