Discussion»Questions»Human Behavior» How much trouble can being naive/trusting get you into when the person you trust lies about everything all the time?
It depends what you're willing to do for that lying person I guess? My ex wife lied and still does all the time. I trusted her and the truth breaks my heart, but I never changed who I was. I honestly loved her, I took care of her and my son and I guess her lying did get us into financial trouble and thankfully I didn't catch any STDs from her cheating and I think she made up a lot of stuff about me and spread it around and she probably ruined my reputation, but I don't talk to many people anyway because I'm always taking care of my son or working alone, but other than that I just have a broken heart from all of her lying.
You loved the wrong person Truthseeker. I can understanding loving someone initially. You loved someone she wasn't. She faked you out. She tricked you. She pulled a fast one on you. But the moment that person lies to me? Love disappears just like that! Snap of the fingers. When someone lies to you that shows disrespect. When someone cheats on you that shows disrespect. I wish I could understand why your heart is broken. You see what she is. You loved the wrong person. It happens. But to allow her duplicity to continue to shape/control your life is so unfair to you and especially to your son. How are you going to move on and find someone worthy of you if your heart is broken and you isolate yourself? How is that good for your son? ((hugs)) Thank you for your reply.
This post was edited by RosieG at September 16, 2017 10:03 AM MDT
Benedict Arnold 