Discussion»Questions»Relationships» Ladies can you please post a picture of your ideal man or describe what would make him a good match for you. Thanks. : )
I thought that way during my teenage years, a time for crushes and daydreams of perfection. But that's not real life as there is no such thing as an ideal guy. I assess men and people in general on a case by case basis.
My ideal man/good match, looks arent entirely important- dont want to judge a book by its cover- what attributes I'm looking for:
maturity- someone I can have a conversation with that is similar to my age that we have the same things to talk about
sense of humor- someone who is lighthearted, who can laugh at themselves and be a joy to havearound
affectionate- someone who shows his love through acts of kindness- he doesn't need to buy me gifts or spend any money to tell me he loves me, just writing a message on a post it and placing it somewhere I'll see it , writing an I love you message on a steamy mirror during a steamy shower- its those little acts of affection that are important not how much money someone spends
same values- taking time in the beginning of the relationship/dating to talk and see do we agree on certain values- religion?do we want more children, where would we live... its important to know those things before getting serious
Love of music, movies, sports :)
Eating different kinds of foods, being healthy- exercising Trying new activities being open to new experiences
Those are the main areas that I can think of right now :))
Ally
This post was edited by ally at September 20, 2017 6:15 PM MDT