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How did you or might you react when your partner confesses s/he has been cheating?

Posted - September 26, 2017

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  • 7939
    I volunteered to officiate his wedding. Good riddance. 
      September 26, 2017 10:53 AM MDT
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  • 2500
    Define "cheating" please.
      September 26, 2017 11:51 AM MDT
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  • 44607
      September 26, 2017 1:56 PM MDT
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  • 46117
    I would know already.

      September 26, 2017 2:51 PM MDT
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  • To be forewarned, albeit intuitively, is to be forearmed, I suppose? This post was edited by Benedict Arnold at September 26, 2017 6:41 PM MDT
      September 26, 2017 6:40 PM MDT
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  • 6477
    What? Why on earth would any man with any sense want to cheat on me??? Oh wait, two did - but now I think of it they didn't have a lot of sense :P  LOL one was pretty spectacular in his ability to cheat as we were in an open relationship at the time :P  Now that was a shock!  Generally speaking the emotions went something like, hurt, feeling betrayed, incredulous, very disappointed and disillusioned with the person concerned...

    I do think though that that said I would be able to discuss it with the person, to hear them out, find out their reasons and reasoning.. trouble is in situs like that by the point they have done what they have done it's too late to discuss and they feel defensive and not much into talking.. 

    On a wider scale I don't necessarily think that cheating is the end - well unless the one who has cheated has decided they want to move on. 
      September 26, 2017 2:57 PM MDT
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  • 7126
      September 26, 2017 4:11 PM MDT
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  • 3523
    That would probably be the end of the relationship.  However, as I get older and sex is less and less a part of my life, I may change my mind.
      September 26, 2017 8:57 PM MDT
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  • 53509


    In reading your question and considering my answer, I realize that that has never happened to me with any woman I've known in my entire life.





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      October 4, 2017 11:20 PM MDT
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