Discussion»Questions»Communication» Some folks tell you what you "SHOULD DO". I think that is very presumptuous of them. Do you? So do you do what they say you SHOULD? Why?
Other people can give very good advice at times. If someone tells me that my actions are making things unpleasant for most of the people around me, then yes, I am mature enough and kind enough to change what I am doing. A person who says they don't care how other people feel about what she is doing is showing narcissist behavior.
A lot of times when someone tells me I should do something, it just makes me want to do the opposite just to spite them. I guess it depends on what they're telling me I should do and their attitude about it. Unless it's at work and my boss is the one telling me what I should be doing.
A supervisor or a teacher or a doctor is supposed to tell you that. The supervisor is your boss, the teacher is your educator and the doctor takes care of your health. But other people on internet social sites whom you will never meet telling you what you SHOULD do really gets to me. Who the he** do they think they are any way? Thank you for your reply Patch and Happy Friday! :)
Patchouli 