I disagree You are blaming it on everyone but the person. You are saying we are all products of our surroundings which totally removes any responsibility for our actions. I am totally responsible for what I say and do. Just me. No one else. I am totally responsible for my actions. No one else. Thank you for your reply Ritesh.
((hugs)) Exactly sweetie. Here's the thing. When you're young your parents exert enormous control over you. Of course they help shape you. BUT when you are adult you have the power to become whomever you want to be...throw away things they told you that don't fit or are uncomfortable and find your own way in life and think/do whatever makes sense to you. Sometimes it reflects how your parents lived but sometimes it doesn't. Thanks for understanding the point I was trying to make. :) I just thought of a related question! :)
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