Nah, it is more like 50-50, Remember the bar scene in star wars with hundreds of different species drink together. Or our very own lovable Alf her on AM
But I must admit I was a bit disturbed by the Movie Armageddon (1?,2?,3?) where the super-nerd whizz kid throw together an inter-species thought translator and the aliens thoughts comes out as "Hate, kill, torture, enslave, destroy, ..."
Because it's more entertaining than aliens who are all buttercookies and friendship because then there won't be so much action. Maybe nice aliens are more for family movies.
I know Protoss when I see them ;) and aliens are evil because Fallen Angels are evil masquerading themselves as them to fit the times. Today they are Greys. Yesterday they were Knomes, elves and fairies.