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Do you ever recover from being deeply disappointed in or hurt by someone? How do you ever trust that person again? Why would you?

Posted - October 21, 2017

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  • 6988
    This reminds me of a love relationship I had decades ago. She left the area and I never saw her again. However, she did come to visit relatives and ran into an old friend of ours and was asking questions about me. Isn't that amusing. 
      October 21, 2017 12:27 PM MDT
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  • 113301
    It means she never forgot about you either bh. I would think that would comfort you a little bit whatever the circumstances of the separation.  Thank you for your reply! :)
      October 22, 2017 1:42 AM MDT
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  • Sit down in solitude forgive her/him and any others that have hurt you/ done wrong to you, pray for them in the way of your belief or non belief just send understanding if you will. There are reasons why people do the things they do. Past trauma mental health the list goes on. The trouble is the negativity is sent straight back to you, so pray for them and forgive. Do this several times a week and I can almost garantee you will feel calmer and stress free. Trust me it works it has for me. I learned this from a certain help organisation I will not mention, im a different person in four weeks. Road rage also works with this outlook things like people cutting you up going too slow not indicating etc etc you say well I've done it myself accidentally in the past and I just verbally say in the car I forgive you I'm not perfect ....stress gone like magic
    Hope this helps This post was edited by Benedict Arnold at October 22, 2017 1:42 AM MDT
      October 21, 2017 1:12 PM MDT
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  • 113301
    Thank you for a very thoughtful and helpful reply Strange.  There is no doubt that it helps to have been there yourself so you speak from experience. I appeciate your sharing this with me, with us. Happy Sunday m'dear! :)
      October 22, 2017 1:43 AM MDT
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  • 3191
    Yep.  Why do you assume trust is involved?  Consider the alternative. 
      October 22, 2017 2:03 AM MDT
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  • Puzzled as to what the alternative is?
      October 22, 2017 9:52 AM MDT
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  • 22891
    i wouldnt ever trust them again
      October 22, 2017 5:38 PM MDT
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