Some of the things attributed to "human nature" are inhuman/inhumane and far from "natural". They are unnatural. What IS human nature?

Human nature is developed in the psyche, it is learning all the time, a great deal during childhood. Family values make us all similar in day to day routines but is very dependent on upbringing. There of course exceptions to this, and I could go on all day with its complexity but I won't.