I understand , Venna. I personally don't think what people eat or do not eat causes cancer. I don't believe you should live life in fear of. I had a complete meltdown when someone I was closest to was diagnosed with cancer. I kept have panic attacks when he was in hospital. I got sent to my doctor because of my panic attacks. I'll never forget what he said to me. he said " some people get dealt shitty cards in life. Frank got dealt a shitty card. It's not his fault, it's not your fault, it's just the hand you both were dealt. You can fall apart or pick yourself and deal with the hand you both were dealt and make the most of it" I think lifestyle plays a factor into getting cancer but mostly it's just getting dealt shitty cards. So fook it :)
Absolutely right you are Jamie.....I think life just throws a nasty surprise....Frank....are you referring to the recent Canadian musician's demise...Jamie?
No I am not... his name was Gord.... the musician that died last week. He's awesome:) I spent last 3 days at tributes to him, say goodbye. I don't want to talk about him anymore then.
It was a person. After years and years of being close friends I couldn't take it any more. Bailing them out of trouble all the time, helping them with their manufactured drama, listening to their excuses, watching them repeat the same destructive patterns that hurt themselves and all us that care about them. CReached my end.
Veena.K 