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You and a very close friend have an irreparable falling out. Would you betray all those trusts that were shared or keep quiet? Why?

Posted - November 5, 2017

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  • 14795
    Never......something told in confidence stays in confidence........gossip is a terrible thing as I was only saying to Mrs Smith the other day when I stoped her for a chat....She's so one I trust and would never pass on a single thing I told her.......she very much like me that way I'm told.....:)D 
      November 5, 2017 8:13 AM MST
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  • 113301
    I think it is a disgrace and I think those who do it are terrible people. I do. A confidence is a confidence no matter whom it was who confided in you. Thank you for your reply  NJ!  :) This post was edited by RosieG at November 5, 2017 11:35 AM MST
      November 5, 2017 10:20 AM MST
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  • 14795
    I can only agree Rosie....I can only agree....
      November 5, 2017 11:35 AM MST
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  • 13071
    OMG HAHAHAHAHAHA!!! :))
      November 5, 2017 11:15 AM MST
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  • 14795
    I find I'm a very trying person at times.......I should not be allowed to get away with wit.....hehe
      November 5, 2017 11:38 AM MST
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  • No I would not. It is not my style plus that would be quite hurtful to them and a total lack of dignity on my part.
    I sure wouldn't want that done to me. Part of emotional maturity is refraining from doing that.

    This post was edited by Benedict Arnold at November 5, 2017 11:09 AM MST
      November 5, 2017 8:18 AM MST
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  • 113301
    I totally agree with thee Lavender Lace. I think it is a DISGRACE when people fink on those who confided in them and trusted them. Thank you for your reply and Happy Sunday! :)
      November 5, 2017 10:18 AM MST
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  • Disgrace indeed.  Thanks dawling! May you have a delightful one. 


      November 5, 2017 10:29 AM MST
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  • 113301
    Gee LavenderLace that's the first time anyone has ever called me "dawling"! I LUV it!  Happy Monday!:).
      November 6, 2017 1:35 AM MST
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  • Heheh. Sweet! You as well..

      November 6, 2017 7:46 AM MST
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  • 19937
    I would keep those confidences. 
      November 5, 2017 11:10 AM MST
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  • 113301
    Everyone loses. The person who betrays a trust, the person whose trust is betrayed and the 3rd party who to listens. Makes no sense for no one to win and everyone to lose. What's the point of that?  Thank you for your reply Spunky and Happy Monday! :)
      November 6, 2017 1:37 AM MST
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  • 19937
    Great way to put it.  Happy Monday, Rosie. :)
      November 6, 2017 8:26 AM MST
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  • 3463
    Yes I know when to keep my mouth shut.
    But in all honesty, I forget a lot of what people tell me.
    It must be the old age thing LOL.
      November 5, 2017 12:17 PM MST
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  • 113301
    You're priceless sweetie! I can relate TOTALLY! Thank you for your reply Lulu'sMom and Happy Monday! :)
      November 6, 2017 1:38 AM MST
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  • 22891
    i would keep quiet
      November 5, 2017 4:57 PM MST
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