Really? Hmm. Well my best friends have always been men. Of course there are some gals whom I consider to be very good friends as well. But they are few and far between. Men are less judgmental, more straightforward and not competitive. At least I have found that to be true for me. My first best friend was my dad. Then in grammar school in the 1st grade I found a gal who was my best friend until she dumped me in the 10th grade because she started hanging out with the "fast" kids and I wasn't up to their level. I didn't smoke for one thing. That kind of soured me for awhile. But through my life in school later on and at jobs I gravitated toward the guys. So I guess they made me feel good about myself while the women had their claws out always judging and finding me inadequate. Thank you for your reply officegirl and Happy Wednesday! :)
This post was edited by RosieG at November 15, 2017 2:56 AM MST