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Benedict Arnold

If you're past your mid-40s, then looking back at your past relationships, how do you see yourself relationship-wise ten years hence?

Posted - December 14, 2017
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  • 11096
    Happily and thankfully single.
      December 14, 2017 5:06 PM MST
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  • 53526



      (((That just means that she has kept herself pure and chaste waiting patiently to be with me, folks.)))

    ~
      December 14, 2017 10:31 PM MST
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  • 11096
    Not even close.
      December 15, 2017 4:00 AM MST
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  • 53526



       Wait, not pure, not chaste?  Wow, a feisty one with a shady past and lots of tread worn down on her tires!  I think I like that even better, folks!


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      December 15, 2017 5:35 AM MST
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  • My previous relationships were long ago, and they were disasters. I picked bad guys. Ten years from now I will have been with a good guy for 45 years. If we both live that long.
      December 14, 2017 5:15 PM MST
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  • 53526


      Meh, I look back without a whole lot of regrets. There were times in my past when those "relationships" served their exact purposes: I wasn't after anything serious, meaningful or long term, I was always up front about it, so I sought out women who thought the same way.  There wasn't much to learn that I could or can apply ten years or more after the fact. Had I been hurt a lot, had my heart broken a lot, been betrayed, etc, I can see how lessons may have derived from all of that if I had been seeking  simething something profound, like marriage, but in my particular case, I was out to have fun and that's what I did.  The higher the bar of expectations, the more probability there is for learning and/or catching deep feelings. 



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    This post was edited by Randy D at December 15, 2017 2:53 PM MST
      December 14, 2017 5:29 PM MST
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  • 5808
    simething profound?
      December 14, 2017 6:00 PM MST
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  • 53526


    D'oh!
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      December 14, 2017 6:42 PM MST
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  • 7795
    I've only had one and that didn't end well. It's not going to looking any better the older I get.
      December 14, 2017 5:32 PM MST
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  • 5808
    looking to the past...
         relationship with Life.
    Future look...
         relationship with Life.
    sooo...Everything is lookin Good
    Relationship with life is quite good.
         there are no limits
    to the depth of existence
    we can experience
         and so it is, in a relationship with
    the Depth of Love.
         so anyway
    that's the future for
    my relationships...LOL


      December 14, 2017 5:55 PM MST
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  • 44652
    Dude...that is all good...But wouldn't some sex make it better?
      December 14, 2017 6:55 PM MST
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  • 44652
    My present relationship sux. I don't see it getting any better. Sometimes I would would rather be dead.
      December 14, 2017 6:16 PM MST
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  • 53526


      Double wood, dude?  Wow, that's probably Freudian. 

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      December 14, 2017 10:24 PM MST
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  • 11096
    If you have no financial or family obligations then I see no point in staying in a relationship that makes you miserable . A relationship should enhance your life.
      December 15, 2017 4:04 AM MST
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  • 19937
    In ten years, I'll be 82.  I'll be lucky if I can remember what a relationship is at that point!  However, I do have some VERY happy memories of the ones I've already had. :)
      December 14, 2017 10:19 PM MST
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  • 6098
    Don't see what past relationships  would have to do with it.  I expect I will still be with my husband. 
      December 15, 2017 6:40 AM MST
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