If you were dating and had to choose between two people, one who was attractive, but couldn't hold a conversation, and one who was a great conversationalist, but not attractive,which would you choose?

I'll take two, please. :p

:-)

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It would have to be about chemistry. And the heart knows.

My dilemma would be quite different: explaining to my wife what I'm doing going out with these four women in the first place.
(See, there you go again, always trying to get me in some kind of trouble.)

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Lolz.

(((((That's part of the reason that Sharonna and I get along so well . . . )))))

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Wait, I already TOLD you, Ozzette, that I plan to get dentures one day!
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I dated a girl who didn't say much, but was really cute. Didn't know if she was shy, or what. Eventually she opened up, and it went right by me because I wasn't paying attention (and because things get by me (g). She dumped me (DUMPED ME, I still don't believe it lol).

The opposite can also be true. Great conversationalist, but not knowing what the heck she's talking about half the time. My mind drifts to thinking about the cute blue pumps I bought at Macy's and what outfit they'll match up with (or do I need a new outfit, hmmm). Then later, I get the surprise "I told you about this, you never listen to me".

So, my answer is neither. I need some balance, and a hug, because the blue pumps bother my feet (sigh).

Bingo!

Personality over looks any day.

Thank you. I hope you're doing well. Haven't seen you around this much lately, or I've not been around that much myself.

Thanks Sapphic.  I have been around, but go in spurts.  It's always good seeing you!

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lol  How'd you wind up with four? 

lol Good point. 

Aww. Thank you, and likewise. :-)

LMAO

If you change "not attractive" to "not as attractive", I'll go for the latter. 

It would strengthen my case even more if you were to define "attractive" as "very good in bed".

People I can't talk to are very frustrating for me; the relationship would last long with someone like that, regardless of how attractive they were.