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What would be wrong with a norm of explicit, enthusiastic consent to every sex act?

"I'm going to do X now."

"Cool do it!"

"Okay now I'm going to Y"

"Alright! I'm into it."

"Can I do Z now?"

"Yes, please do!"

"I suggest now we do A, B, and then C."

"I'm down!"

Suppose things evolved into a state where the above was considered the norm, deviations from it considered a breach? Not necessarily a serious breach every time, just maybe impolite, and, at worst, much worse than impolite.

Posted - January 17, 2018

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  • 32663
    That would be very annoying.
      January 17, 2018 9:31 AM MST
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  • 6098
    Actually some men do that and its very distracting.  I don't want to have to answer questions or grant requests - I just want to be taken and enjoyed.  And enjoy in response.  How can I really enjoy when I'm being expected to make coherent answers? 
      January 17, 2018 10:23 AM MST
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