:/ That's harder than one might think. Starting with the most recent and working backward through junior high, giving one trait for each man who was a significant part of my life...
-He meant well. (lol That's the best I got.) -He was fiercely brilliant and witty. -He was a good protector. -He taught me a lesson I needed to learn. -He was patient enough to help me overcome my past. -He was insanely passionate about everything.
First I'd have to define "ex", then I'd have to quantify "love", then I'd have to extrapolate from the grand total of women with whom I shared even the slightest and most loosely-described "relationships", to boil it all down to a viable response. Wait, what was the question again?