Man that was a weird time for me. I was very vulnerable, totally alone and depended on that site to keep sane for the months that led up to its demise.
Actually I was gone before they pulled the plug except for the personal messaging. When they hired Google AdSense they started deleting more and more of the previous adult posts. Including eventually so many I had spent a lot of time on over the years. Which was discouraging to say the least.