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ProblemCh1ld

Would you kick your dogs/cats/etc. out of your bed if a new man in your life didn't want them there?

Posted - March 6, 2018
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  • 3463
    No, I would kick him out.
      March 6, 2018 6:15 PM MST
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  • 46117
    They really don't belong there.  I like dogs.   I don't know if I want some man dictating to me how I sleep or where my pets sleep.  



    This post was edited by WM BARR . =ABSOLUTE TRASH at March 6, 2018 8:26 PM MST
      March 6, 2018 6:19 PM MST
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  • 2465
    In my house they do belong there. I  agree with the rest that you said. 
      March 6, 2018 6:55 PM MST
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  • 53524


      Wait, what?  Hold the phone!  I noticed how quickly and quietly you skipped over that one part where I have a man and that other part where he's in my bed!



    ~
      March 6, 2018 6:22 PM MST
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  • 2465
    I have a man. He's in my bed (on occasion). 
      March 6, 2018 6:59 PM MST
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  • 53524


      That's different. You didn't word it that way in your question. 
    :)
      March 6, 2018 7:12 PM MST
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  • 2465
    Most people figured that part out all by themselves. 
      March 10, 2018 12:33 AM MST
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  • 53524


      I'm one of them. 
    ~
      March 10, 2018 12:42 AM MST
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  • 2465
    :P
      March 10, 2018 12:47 AM MST
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  • 2052
    Funny you should ask, I've been wondering about that.  I am hopeful he has a lot of animals and I wonder who will win out sleeping with us.  Probably the dog, my cats will be hiding somewhere.
    What do you think? 
      March 6, 2018 6:26 PM MST
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  • 2465
    I can't see ANY man telling me I have to keep my animals out of my own bed. In my  circumstances I don't see the man winning.  He made the comment to me it's either your dogs or me.  I don't work very well with ultimatums. It's a bit too controlling for me. 

     What would YOU do if it came down to it? This post was edited by ProblemCh1ld at March 7, 2018 1:10 AM MST
      March 6, 2018 6:52 PM MST
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  • 2052
    I can understand some people don't like pets in their bed.  I'd be willing to negotiate a "large" fenced enclosure (top included) outside for a kitty wonderland.  A safe place for them to spend time outdoors with a cat door at one end to enter the house.  Like an avery for birds,  only this one for cats.  That would make them happier than sleeping with me at night...i think.  hahahaha
    (complete with tree limbs to climb on, a little cat house, an easy to clean cat box area and an awesome play yard designed by the best)
      March 7, 2018 1:18 AM MST
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  • 7795
    The only thing getting kicked will be the other person.
      March 6, 2018 7:25 PM MST
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  • 2465
    Those are my sentiments as well. 
      March 10, 2018 12:31 AM MST
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  • 97
    Love me, love my cats.  And dogs.
      March 6, 2018 8:20 PM MST
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  • 2465
    You betcha!  Besides, my dogs were in my bed for many years before HE came into the picture. 
      March 10, 2018 12:37 AM MST
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  • 3375
    My husband is a huge animal lover, but really appreciates if the pets stay out of the bedroom since he starts sneezing and coughing.  Our pets are plenty pampered, so it's a fair compromise to not have them in the bedroom with us.  We have a great big sectional that they all seem to like to share with us any other time.  
      March 6, 2018 8:25 PM MST
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  • 46117
    That's a GOOD reason.   Everyone is looking out for everyone else and the animals are comfortable and loved. 

    Hooray!
      March 6, 2018 8:28 PM MST
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  • 3375
    Exactly right.  And to be honest, I have worse allergies than he has, but could never imagine a bed without them.  But he's worth it.  If he didn't like animals, he would never be someone in my life.  
      March 6, 2018 8:29 PM MST
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  • 17614
    Pets would never be in my bed with me.  
      March 7, 2018 12:24 AM MST
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  • I’d be kicking that man out of my life. 
      March 7, 2018 1:24 AM MST
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  • 2465
    Either that or at least out of my bed. 
      March 10, 2018 12:38 AM MST
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  • 34435
    I don't want the animals in the bed. My husband agrees so it works. 
      March 7, 2018 1:43 PM MST
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