Yes. I knew I had to fly to Chicago to get my daughter in the 90's while I lived here in Arizona. I knew it was going to be a hellish situation, but I had to do it because she was in dire straits. My mother, my daughter and I had to live together. It was a nightmare.
I can get along with my daughter fine. Most of the time. No one can get along with my mother. So, it was a nightmare. But I would have to say I did the right thing even though I paid.
Feeling pressured to marry young because I was pregnant. I didn't want to do it, but the pressure from his family was enormous. I wasn't in a stage in my life where I had much of a backbone. Sure enough, the marriage quickly failed and I became a struggling single mother. It all worked out in the end and I was a lot stronger for it. But I wouldn't have ever married the man, given my own choice.
Having an abortion when I was 19 I knew was nothing to feel good about but at the time no way was I not going to have it. So I have ever since felt guilty and regretted it. Especially as I never had children.
