Discussion»Statements»Rosie's Corner» Some gals love BAD BOYS. They are lied to/betrayed/harmed and still they love. Some men love bad boys too. Isn't it sad when folks LOVE bad?
Birds of a feather flock together. Bad women are attracted to bad men. There is such a strong bias in the human race to deny the dark side of female nature. How could this angel be attracted to this demon people wonder. It's really very simply. She is no angel. She's trash, like him.
Women of good character are also somewhat attracted to bad guys too. Women are attracted to strength and badness is often mistaken for strength. It's not niceness that turns women off, it's weakness. Niceness is often mistake for weakness. The average man today is a half gelded, effeminate, weak, conformist, shadow of his ancestors. He's a product of leftist social conditioning and estrogenic chemicals in the food and water. Women instinctively know deep down that something is wrong.
Always a cause for amusement Zeity. We have discussed similar before.. In truth much as many, especially, I have found, men - in truth it's only the dipstick chav types, poorly educated, poorly raised who go for behind-wipe types and even they sometimes learn in the end. I do agree that it's more likely it's the trash attracts trash that's at work here.. in that both men who behave badly and women who like them are both poorly raised, poorly educated etc.. Real men have no need to fear or behave badly towards women.. and real women have no need to allow themselves to be treated badly.
The important thing is when women who have a history of repeated patterns finally wake up and learn..that pretty much tells us that it isn't right, natural OR good - we aren't cavemen and generally speaking those who view niceness as a weakness tend to be poorly educated, poorly raised, very insecure types.
We are cavemen in our DNA. It hasn't changed significantly in the last 15000 years and DNA is at least 80% of human behaviour. (That's one of the reasons why the world is so screwed up. Things have changed so radically in the last few centuries and our software desperately needs an update. Our emotional programming is simply not designed for the world we're in today. Evolution works too slowly to catch up.)
Attraction to strength and aversion to weakness is hard coded into all women. It's just a question of what she perceives as strong and what she perceives as weak. Yes I would agree that it's usually unsophisticated women that have poor judgement in that area leading to toxic abusive relationships.
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