Last week when the wife and I were saying bye bye to our 14 month old Granddaughter she was about to give my wife a hug and kiss but then she noticed me and came over and gave me a kiss and hug first. It probably hurt my wife's feelings but I felt real good because 6 months ago our Granddaughter seemed to be afraid of me and she would cry ever time I tried to pick her up. But now I'm the first one to get the bye bye kisses and hugs. Cheers!
Reasonable adults would not quibble such a thing.