What are some signs that a person is no longer in love with you?

I hear you.
You said that if he stopped calling at a certain time.
I agree.
I've noticed when a woman doesn't call me as much or make plans for us anymore.
I think that's a big sign that she may not be feeling as strongly as she once did.
Thanks. : )

This post was edited by Summer at June 26, 2018 9:08 PM MDT

You're welcome Summer.  Also, you know it takes two.  The trials and tribulations of being in a relationship and the euphoric feeling loves brings us all is something created by two.
You will feel it in your heart when your love is not reciprocated.  
Being "in love" with someone and being "loved by someone" is also different.
Being in a relationship with someone whom you loved and them moving on without you is very painful.
You can decide if you both want to work through it or you both would like to move on without each other, physically and emotionally.
It's not fair if one bails out without the other's consent.  That is a relationship drama we all like to avoid. Relationships of the heart are wonderful.  I am a product of that but there have been ups and downs.  It is a matter of growing together or apart.  A choice both have to make, together. :) :)

It's all a give and take, Summer.  Like your heart does biologically.  It gives your muscles and body oxygen to survive and your body takes it.  Your body then brings back the blood to be re-oxygenated and do it all over again.  Your body grows into an adult and emotions become a factor....
See?  My dear, it is all a growing and wonderful thing... together... from the heart.. 
Big smiles and hugs!

Thank you.
I was curious about the difference between being "In love" with someone and being "Loved" by someone.
You had mentioned it.
It's intriguing if you care to go into further detail. This post was edited by Summer at June 26, 2018 5:29 PM MDT

Thank you for asking.  I would like to. :)
Love is a difficult thing to define. It has many levels and many meanings depending on how you are expressing it. The common denominator it shares, is emotion.
I am in love with my mom, sister, dad, etc.  I also love element, carbon, ALF, Beans/SilentGeneration, Randy, JA, etc. I am in love with Don. I have loved vodka in the past but have turned my love to rum now-a-days.  Traitor, I am!  Big giggles!
I'm just trying to lighten it up. Big smiles!
Love is something you cannot hold onto, physically, like a vodka or rum bottle.  Love is something inside you.  It is an emotion.  You grow and learn and on your way you find somethings you "claimed" as your love, doesn't spark an interest.
You OWN your emotions.  Love is a huge one.  Who or what you choose to share that part of you with is entirely up to you.  You can't make anyone do anything with their emotions.  If they want to dislike onions or my mom, they will.  I can show them sides of both that might entice them; but it is entirely up to them.  You may have loved someone in your past.  Today, they may not mean as much to you as they did or you may have turned entirely against them.  BUT, if you did open your emotion to them at some point in your life, you DID Feel something.  They played an important part of your love now.  Example:  Jason was my first experience with love outside my immediate family.  I was 16 and thought I knew all about love.  I DID.  I DID know all about love at that point in my life as did Jason.  Our plans and what we were to do with that experience and that emotion was great because we learned about physical and mental love.  We GREW.  We grew because we needed to, g r o w  a p a r t...
We allowed ourselves the fascination, learning why we did, experiencing the sexual dynamics we tried, learned how to say,  "I love you," and mean it. I loved him. He still holds a special place in my heart.  One that is only his. He hold that "I loved him" stop forever in my heart.  I have no desire do go back to him or rock his world today.  Learning about love along the way is really a part of the love emotion and the dimensions it travels in. 
Making love stay in one place is impossible.  It is a very liquid emotion.  
Relationships with another being requires a love that is willing to work as one.  It really helps when it is balanced.
Fascinated or infatuated with someone/thing is different, too.  You can be in love with the ocean or the mountains.  Chances are, they feel a love for you too, we just don't know exactly how to read it into our human relationship sort of love thing!  Big giggles!
Summer, love is an emotion that grows as you experience all different sides of it.
There are many and I hope you travel down many paths of love that bring you happiness and GIVE you LOVE back.
Hugs and Loves,
Merlin

Yes, that's definitely a not so subtle sign of infidelity.
Thanks.

(not-so-subtle)

Beans, you crack me up!!!!!!  Huge Giggles and Smiles!!!!!!!!!!  So True!!!!

Merlin, you're a person I consider a friend..even if not on a list.  If I had one I'd hope you would accept my friend's request.  I keep a few, like you, in the memory...  Take Care

Beans, you ARE one of my friends.  In my heart and my thoughts.  Always!  In fact, even before I saw this, I included you in my example for Summer...
I truly appreciate your presence and your being, more than I mention. 
Big smiles and great vibes, always!  Love, Merlin :) :)

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What's the difference between disinterest and indifference?

It's a distinction without a difference, but at such a time, a minor point when your heart is being crushed.

Not sure there is such an animal as a distinction without a difference, which would make distinction with a difference redundant, lol!

Depends on context.

Indifference can mean being neutral, having neither positive nor negative feelings toward or about something.
Or it can mean callousness.

Interest has many meanings:
the rate paid on a loan,
those things which directly or indirectly affect a person's well-being,
a passion, hobby, or passtime,
curiousity, or desire to research, experiment, learn, invent or discover,
or an attraction towards spending time with someone, wanting to know them and caring about their welfare.

In the context of relationships, emotions are rarely neutral. "Indifference" can arise when resentment has built up over a long period of time, anger can overwhelm and outweigh love, and a callous lack of caring about the pain of the other can be a common result. 

Disinterest in a relationship happens when the physical and emotional attraction has died. The person would rather be doing almost anything other than spending time with the partner, and know long cares what the other is feeling, thinking or doing.

Thank you for the information.
I can relate to "Disinterest and distraction."
Near the end of my marriage I would kiss my wife goodbye for the day and it had no feeling anymore.
I opened my eyes and I could see that her eyes were open and she was looking off to the side as if she was thinking about a million other things.
It was ultimately a good thing that it ended.
It wasn't a healthy relationship anymore.

This post was edited by Summer at June 26, 2018 5:30 PM MDT

Thanks.
I'm just more interested in the little signs that a person is perhaps falling out of love.
Like if they're all of sudden losing a bunch of weight, buying new clothes and laying in their bedroom texting people at all hours or they say they're going out to for an hour, but they don't come back until late etc.
I was just curious about some of the games that people play when they don't want to end a relationship for whatever reason, but they're obviously moving on.

It's interesting to me, because I only trust people's actions so I like to understand them.
That's what this question is really about.