Why do I keep growing affection for one guy, everytime I go to a new location such as a different state or start a new job or whatnot?

We're all just pretty badass. 

Because that is the phase of life you, yourself and YOU are in right now.  You need to be aware of why and not take it really seriously, but have fun and just know you are like this.  See what happens. 

Biology and boredom aren't mutually exclusive, but yeah, it's biology.

Lies!! I like my bed and sleep. That's all!

How do I get rid of it?

Screw phases

Lies!

Could be either or both.

But when you get to a certain age, the drop in hormones means you become immune to infatuation - amazingly liberating!

probably cause you ran into some people that you liked

It depends on what you mean by "get rid of it."

Do you prefer to become celibate and be free of the pain of affairs of the heart? If so learning a form of meditation like Vipassana or Zen might help. Or get physically and mentally very active as a distraction. Or choose a job and workplace where there is no one likely to trigger your hormonal responses (like aged care or looking after preschoolers.)

If you want a partner, don't let it be just any person whom you happen to see frequently.

Be proactive.

Decide what qualities you want and which ones you won't tolerate. Figure out where people like that are most likely to hang out, and then put yourself in that place or environment frequently so you have the chance to meet and get to know the right kind of blokes.

Especially good to find someone who shares similar goals, values, and lifestyle. It doesn't guarantee success because these things can change over a lifetime. It does, however, make it more likely that a genuine, lasting love can grow from the relationship as the infatuation passes. The transition is not without struggle because when the heady romantic hormones wear off, we start to see faults in the other and reveal more of our own. Part of developing love is getting to know, accept, trust and respect the real person.

I left my choice of a life partner till too late. It meant my body was too old to carry a baby to full term.

I think you're a succubus.

Well guys are pretty cool.  I like them too :-)

bcuz u r so hot

Mr. B... you're so good to me. :0)

I hate guys though. I hate humans!! :0(

oh lol