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At least when you fight for money and win, they pay up. And everybody knows what money is.
I only fight if my levels of anger and hatred reached critical levels.
Neither.
Love can not be won by fighting - it is not possible.
Rounds in the boxing ring would never be my choice for a career.
Both love and money are better earned without the risks of causing harm
In a perfect world sure. But both love AND money come with the risk of causing harm.
Not necessarily.
In my view, love is not love if it causes harm.
Love seeks only the well-being of the other.
Any "love" that causes harm is the triumph of neurosis and dysfunction.
An ethically aware person can usually choose actions which avoid hurting others.
Dilemmas in which some harm is unavoidable are rare.
Sure, had it bad once upon a time, seriously bad - precisely because he did not love me.
Learned the lesson.