Do you like it when folks tell you what your intention is? How often do they hit a homerun and how often are they in a different ballpark?

I listen.  If something they say hits a nerve, I feel that.  They may not want to try that again.  I may apologize for my own reaction but the apology usually comes after I have beaten them over the head with a retort they also won't  soon forget.

I'm better at it than Donald.  But it is never the correct way to proceed.