Discussion»Statements»Rosie's Corner» When things break down it's mostly a matter of inconvenience and expense. When people break down that's WAY WORSE. Ever break down?
Oh my goodness m'dear. If you told me that before I had forgotten. I am so very sorry that life seemed so bleak and hopeless for you twice upon time. I'm also grateful that you helped your wife through hers when she most needed you. No wonder the bond of love is so very strong between the two of you. Going through he** and surviving it is no small accomplishment. Thank you for your reply R and Happy Tuesday. I figger you are 19 hours ahead of me. Is that correct? We fell back so when we go forward an hour the difference will be 18 hours? The time difference is a never-ending source of wonderment for me! It takes very little to delight me!
This post was edited by RosieG at January 2, 2019 2:06 AM MST
18 hours, 30 minutes. It's 19 on the east coast, Adelaide is half an hour behind that. In your summer it's 16.5, when you go forward we fall back.
Clinical depression is a common side-effect of chronic pain. I felt like I was a burden to my family and they were better off without me. Took a lot of counselling and soul-searching to get out of that mindset, and on both occasions my family saved me.
I'm so glad you conquered it and didn't allow it to conquer you Sharon. They say what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. I've always wondered why some folks take longer to figure life out than others. Of course what appears to be true superficially may not be true at all. You think some folks lead charmed lives and never have to struggle and then they die and you read about them and discover you didn't know a thing about them at all. Congrats for figuring it out and doing something about it. Thank you for your reply and Happy Wednesday! :)
Or to put it another way never give up. Keep fighting. Put one foot in front of the other and you will eventually get to a somewhere that is hopefully good for you. Thank you for your reply franc and Happy Wednesday! :)
My last job was too stressful. They had me doing the job of 2-3 people in an 8-hour shift and at all hours of the day and night. Because I'm a naturally wired person, I got the job(s) done - plus I had a model store (almost always exceeded the financial forecast goals set forth by corporate). I liked my job, but like a fool I ignored the warning signs that the job was killing me - literally (near heart attack, sudden severe asthma attacks, migraines, etc.). Right before christmas 2016 my body finally had enough and just gave out. My arms stopped working (rotator cuff injury), my hands and legs would suddenly freeze up (intensely painful), plus I had almost continuous anxiety and panic attacks. After over a year of therapy (both physical and mental), I was finally able to somewhat control my mental problems and move my limbs (although I still have occasional bouts of minor pain and stiffness). However, my asthma is now permanent.
Breakdowns happen - sewage backs up, transmissions fall out, walls rot, water heaters rust through. When a car or appliance breaks down, it can be repaired or replaced (which may cost a hefty sum). Yet, when it's your body or mind that breaks down, one can't simply replace it. And the cost of "repair" goes well beyond monetary. - Listen to your body. It's a lot smarter than you might think. - Never ignore pain. It's there for a reason. - Nothing - not a job, a sporty car, a fancy house, or whatever - is worth jeopardizing your health for. Things come and go, but you only get one body and mind to last your entire lifetime. If it breaks down you're really going to "pay".
I agree. I took the job as, at the time, I was out of work with no prospects for a job. They actually called me up and literally begged me to come work for them (I'd never even applied there for a job). I should have known they were lousy when they referred to their employers as "bodies" not a people.
YOU ARE A SURVIVOR Shuhak. I know you've had physical problems because you've alluded to some of them but I had no idea of the magnitude. Years ago I'd come in early, work late, take work home to do on weekends or just go into the office. The trap? I loved the work I did. I wanted to do a good job. Those two things will trap you every time because I know of no company that wouldn't be delighted to take advantage of that trap. Give you a key to the building so you could go in at any time! Made me feel important. They had to hire a guard so I wouldn't be there alone. But my experience never reached the level of yours. I am very sorry that any job would be that demanding...enough to severely damage you. Temporarily I hope and not foreverly. It's rather like being in a battle and getting wounded. You're here. You could have continued to let to go and ignored it and been in an unreachable elsewhere but you're here. That's a very good thing. Thank you for your thoughtful reply Shuhak and for sharing such experiences with us. Perhaps in reading what you wrote someone will recognize himself or herself and see the warning signs. Happy Wednesday m'dear! :)
This post was edited by RosieG at January 2, 2019 10:35 AM MST
Which means what Ele? You are currently fighting to not break down? So something is going on in your life that causes you to feel that way? Not trying to pry. Is it something you have the power to change or do you just need to hold on hang on and ride it through? Here's hoping you get a handle on it and take charge. Of course I have no idea what it is so I'm just kinda flying blind here. Good luck. Don't give up! Keep up the good fight! It's always darkest before the dawn. Platitudes I know but it's all I got. I'm on your side and in your corner kiddo. If there is anything I can do let me know. Thank you for your reply and Happy Wednesday! :)
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