That is a totally stupid day to send a friend a message. This is a day when lovers spend time together. Not friends. I mean friends can hang tggether, of course, but not celebrating being in love.
Maybe. On the whole I don't like the commercialisation of things that should centre on love (of any kind.)
But it happens that Ari and I are in a really good space together at the moment.
Tomorrow, we'll see a good art movie together, take a long walk on the beach, probably have a swim in the estuary, and later share a meal at a local Vietnamese restaurant. Probably there'll be zero romance - he's not that type and hasn't much mojo - but there will be a deep and contented enjoyment of companionship, friendship, good will.