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Benedict Arnold

Have you ever been the target of hurtful barbs owing to the nature of your relationship?

Posted - February 13, 2019
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  • 46117
    Yeah, but I am usually the one throwing them.  I seriously have been the target and I have thrown the barbs and I would rather be the target.  I do not like to hurt anyone.  
      February 13, 2019 6:50 PM MST
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  • 7939
    My ex-husband could get pretty nasty in arguments. I never experienced that with anyone else, regardless of the circumstances. 
      February 13, 2019 10:00 PM MST
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  • 53509

      (I think Neelie is referring to negative comments directed to you and/or your significant other by people who disapprove of your relationship, such as a May- December one or an interracial one.)
    ~
      February 14, 2019 6:07 AM MST
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  • 4624
    A couple of times - many years ago.

    The barbs made me think; I realised I needed to make changes.
    I did and they worked.
      February 13, 2019 10:40 PM MST
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  • 53509

      "Why aren't you with me, Randall? What does she have that I don't have? Sob, sniff."




    I get that a lot.
    ~
      February 14, 2019 12:15 AM MST
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  • 46117
    Oh yes.  That's spot on.  

      February 14, 2019 12:43 AM MST
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